yeah its true about other people...but that doesn't mean they look at bald guys like they're lesser...If anything they look at some bald guys with envy because they can pull off the look (U man is one of those guys) and they think they would never be able to pull off being bald. And while a lot of men would be gutted...the majority seem to get over it because they realize IT IS THEIR LIFE AT STAKE....they don't want to let something as stupid as losing hair RUIN their lives like U-man has unfortunately been doing...its not like bald men have any less right to live a happy life. I also think the anxiety goes into something deeper...going bald triggers something complex inside a man to do with mortality or whatnot...it goes a lot deeper than just fear of not being attractive.
I look at it like somebody with diabetes...I would never want to get that disease, nobody would CHOOSE to have it...but for people who do contract it, they still live their lives to the fullest and accept the fact that they have the disease and the limitations that come with it...it shouldn't be something that ruins their life though. In the same sense, just because someone has hair and would not want to go bald, it doesn't mean he's going to look at bald people like they are lesser. The same applies with shortness, or ethnicity, or many other physical characteristics.
It sucks that U-man can't get past it, but he acts like his perception towards his own baldness is a fact for all bald men and that is what pisses me off....because there are plenty of bald guys out there who would laugh at him for being such a wuss about hairless, but he sees his perception as the concrete reality...that if you're bald then people see you as lesser, they laugh at you and you can never date again....
I look at it like somebody with diabetes...I would never want to get that disease, nobody would CHOOSE to have it...but for people who do contract it, they still live their lives to the fullest and accept the fact that they have the disease and the limitations that come with it...it shouldn't be something that ruins their life though. In the same sense, just because someone has hair and would not want to go bald, it doesn't mean he's going to look at bald people like they are lesser. The same applies with shortness, or ethnicity, or many other physical characteristics.
It sucks that U-man can't get past it, but he acts like his perception towards his own baldness is a fact for all bald men and that is what pisses me off....because there are plenty of bald guys out there who would laugh at him for being such a wuss about hairless, but he sees his perception as the concrete reality...that if you're bald then people see you as lesser, they laugh at you and you can never date again....