+100. It's always the people who have virtually no noticeable hair loss who come on here with this "man-up bulls**t". They do not know what real hair loss is like because no one is going to mock you for being an NW1 or an NW2. That is so incredibly minor since you have what is essentially a full head of hair. These fullheads always say stuff like "there are more important things than hair" yet they don't know what the devastation of true baldness is like because they have never experienced it firsthand for themselves. Fred unfortunately does know because he was bald at one time. My wish for the New Year is for people who have essentially full heads of hair to stop coming on here and preaching to people about how they should react to true hair loss, especially when they have absolutely zero firsthand knowledge of it themselves.
Too true!! But, in a sense, I can't blame these early norwoods for having this "whatever", "man-up", "it's only hair" mindset.
Ya see, at the moment these fullheads/early balding types are still getting neutral to positive feed back from the world. And in theory, loosing your hair in an obvious male pattern baldness pattern really shouldn't effect this feedback, right??
And I agree...In a theory it SHOULDN'T!!
But out there in the real world, where it's a ****ing rat race and people have no time to actually consider the fact that your still a worthwhile person despite your hair loss..and, surprise..you didn't actually CHOOSE to look like this....these theories go completely out the window.
In an instant you will be sized up, judged..and put into a certain "loser" category..one of which you never actually decided to join.
Don't expect the full heads/women to actually consider the possibility that you NEVER actually chose to look like this.
That's asking WAY too much!
This is you new look..your new category and you will be treated as such.
Don't believe me, anyone??? Just wait. It will happen to you.
And as the poster Norwood said... The disrespect dished out to bald men by strangers will eat away at you and make you a very bitter person. That's if you have any SELF respect at all.
You can only shrug your shoulders and "man-up" so many goddamn times...
Now, quite often this disrespect is dished out in quite subtle ways so maybe that's why it's not really picked up on by those with a full head of hair.
Hell, even some baldites are oblivious to it!! But, there is no hope for those guys anyway!! (You know the type)