A Study Regarding The Importance Of Personality

Rudiger

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You can't say that, Dante, because if you were honest, you simply don't know.

Well this is what I don't get and it's not just Dante, it's a lot of guys but why not use him as an example.

Tells us he hasn't spoken to a woman in years, tells us he has no time for their slutty hateful ways, and also feels he can tell us how they operate. And with some certainty to it as well, like he's a bigger expert than those who date, socialise with and have friendly relationships with women.

This is exactly what that @zircon topic was about recently. The frustration is understandable.

And the only women Dante does interact with, here on this forum? Gets along with playfully.

I guess they're the only 2 or 3 on earth, good thing they also ended up on this forum lol.
 

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Interesting study. Although I can say as a guy that gets called "attractive" on here and in person, my weird as f*** personality definitely scares off a lot of potential relationships (e.g., go on a date with a girl, hook up, then never hear from her again).

I can already hear the conversations the girls have with their friends, "Yeah he was really cute but he was so f*****g weird!"
How are you weird? No offense but your username is very normie. Generic name and then 420. Makes me think of a cookie cutter stoner

Thats just the impression i get from your name tho. You havent posted enough for me to get a good idea of your personality
 
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3 caveats:

- they watched a video of each other. Thats not really an interaction

-this is initial romantic interest. What is personalitys role in lasting relationships?

-its self report.
 

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Was he some kangaroo jockey from the 1930's or something?
Haha.. England test cricket captain turned commentator. Born in South Africa.
Australian legend on television.
Source: Wikipedia.
 

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Obviously physical attractiveness is important. But there is a giant leap taken by many here from "looks matter" to "I can't get a partner". And then pictures are posted of quite normal looking or even kinda attractive men and women, and the comments are like "ugly, disgusting slob". And model looking people are discussed like "she's OK. he's OK. a 7.5. a normie. average". There was a thread posted here not long ago, a string of pictures of gorgeous women, and many of the comments were like "they are mostly 8's." Really? 2 out of 10 women are better looking than these girls? Hogwash...

Well, perhaps this is why you can't get a partner. Because your view of what people should look like is warped. Walk around any town in the USA and what you see, everywhere, is couples of all shapes and sizes and 1-10 ratings, happily holding hands, with dogs and families. How in the world did these people ever get partners? A lot of them look normal, and a whole lot of them, probably most, are what would absolutely be described here as "ugly". People whose looks would be relentlessly mocked if their pics were posted here... Adjust ye standards.
 

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How are you weird? No offense but your username is very normie. Generic name and then 420. Makes me think of a cookie cutter stoner

Thats just the impression i get from your name tho. You havent posted enough for me to get a good idea of your personality

I'm generally a pretty awkward person. I've even had some good friends be honest with me and tell me that lol.
 

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Obviously physical attractiveness is important. But there is a giant leap taken by many here from "looks matter" to "I can't get a partner". And then pictures are posted of quite normal looking or even kinda attractive men and women, and the comments are like "ugly, disgusting slob". And model looking people are discussed like "she's OK. he's OK. a 7.5. a normie. average". There was a thread posted here not long ago, a string of pictures of gorgeous women, and many of the comments were like "they are mostly 8's." Really? 2 out of 10 women are better looking than these girls? Hogwash...

Well, perhaps this is why you can't get a partner. Because your view of what people should look like is warped. Walk around any town in the USA and what you see, everywhere, is couples of all shapes and sizes and 1-10 ratings, happily holding hands, with dogs and families. How in the world did these people ever get partners? A lot of them look normal, and a whole lot of them, probably most, are what would absolutely be described here as "ugly". People whose looks would be relentlessly mocked if their pics were posted here... Adjust ye standards.
Those happy people you see together are probably looksmatched and untouched by the lookism/blackpill culture. Once you swallow the blackpill it's very difficult to regurgitate that. After sometime in a relationshit comfort comes into play and she no longer truly gets wet for you, aka Chad takes over her biological prowl. It's a short resentful bittersweetness.
 

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Walk around any town in the USA and what you see, everywhere, is couples of all shapes and sizes and 1-10 ratings, happily holding hands, with dogs and families..

I love small town USA. Like, Senoia Georgia for example.
 

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Those happy people you see together are probably looksmatched and untouched by the lookism/blackpill culture. Once you swallow the blackpill it's very difficult to regurgitate that. After sometime in a relationshit comfort comes into play and she no longer truly gets wet for you, aka Chad takes over her biological prowl. It's a short resentful bittersweetness.

When does this happen?

I don't know what you mean, the happy people (including the female "settler") swallows the black pill and then wants Chads? She always wanted Chads, she knew she couldn't find compatibility with one because she wasn't attractive enough, she found compatibility with someone of a lower aesthetic value.

From there feelings towards someone or "familiarity" grows strong, and I'd like to see you tell an average woman with an average husband of a decade that she's settling and desperate for Chads.
 

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When does this happen?

I don't know what you mean, the happy people (including the female "settler") swallows the black pill and then wants Chads? She always wanted Chads, she knew she couldn't find compatibility with one because she wasn't attractive enough, she found compatibility with someone of a lower aesthetic value.

From there feelings towards someone or "familiarity" grows strong, and I'd like to see you tell an average woman with an average husband of a decade that she's settling and desperate for Chads.
It's easy to take a quick glance at a couple holding hands, kissing or what have you and assume that everything is fine. We can assume all day I suppose. Sex and attraction gets stale over time, all at different rates. An average, below average or what have you will usually sexually urge those Chads, can even be a normie just someone different.

In my experience married women don't necessarily want to leave their husbands, the men are great towards them, simply the sex/attraction has taken a natural decline and they'd like something different that's all. No harm no foul. They f*** and move on with their lives behind that white picket fence.
 

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It's easy to take a quick glance at a couple holding hands, kissing or what have you and assume that everything is fine. We can assume all day I suppose. Sex and attraction gets stale over time, all at different rates. An average, below average or what have you will usually sexually urge those Chads, can even be a normie just someone different.

In my experience married women don't necessarily want to leave their husbands, the men are great towards them, simply the sex/attraction has taken a natural decline and they'd like something different that's all. No harm no foul. They f*** and move on with their lives behind that white picket fence.

Well we're back to square one, it's even easier to assume that from a quick glance at a couple holding hands, that she's desperately looking rid of him and wants a Chad instead. Even at the risk of a one night stand.

To me that's even more of a jump in logic, wanting to believe from an image, what you want to take from it.

This is what red pill or MGTOW sh*t is for me, and why I've never truly engaged with the vast majority of ideas involved, it's all about trying to crush any hope of happiness for people because of the emptiness of the opines life.

And normally this is all based on absolutely nothing, the anecdotal evidence that in some cases women will cheat, and end up divorcing their man for his money, his house, his kids, and while that's a hard pill to swallow that it could happen to anyone, red pill applies this logic to absolutely everything.

It's like this rule of 80% of women only wanting 20% of men, I've never looked into it but I know of the Pareto principle, I would guess this is probably where the idea was based on, and to me that tells me the idea is total bullshit. Applying a principle to relationships because it's scientifically "sound".

Yet that same idea is something we see all the time, red pillers think this is actually science, @Patrick_Bateman referenced it in the OP, but nobody knows where it came from or what it means.
 
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