GoodGuy said:
Believe me.. I am not a lucky guy...
I suck so much.
Goodguy, i feel for you man, male pattern baldness is something that can consume some people. However it's really your mind consuming you, tricking you into believing things which aren't true.
Your own situation would appear very differently to others, and im sure many would look at you and want what you have.
I know, with the rational voice telling me in the back of my mind, that i am one damn lucky guy. I have so many things which many people would love to have.
However, the only thing that is prominent in my mind recently has been my thinning hair and how awful it makes me feel, and i can't imagine how anyone else would view me differently if it worsens or doesnt improve.
The truth is that someone with only one leg will look at my and crave what i have. Someone with no money at all will crave what i have. Someone with no future will crave what i have.
But for me, i crave what someone with lots of hair has.
This is our mind playing tricks on us, it really is. Life is 10% what happens to you, 90% how you think about what happens to you.
Want what you have, don't just try to have what you want. All it will do is leave you deeply dissatisfied and rob you of all happiness and contentment. When you want what you have, the reverse happens...
Good luck with your problems.