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What are they trying to tell you - is it a subtle way of telling you you’re no oil painting? :wink:
I live with my parents. In our house we have loads of pictures up of my sister. Who has lovely blonde hair, not to mention the non-self-conscious look on her face in each picture. Saying that, there isn’t one picture of me.
Put the violins away please.
:wink:
There used to be pictures of me up when I had the important framed face we all talk about. At the moment, face on pictures of me aren’t the prettiest. Basically because of the recession and the effect it has had on my appearance.
Combine that with the fact I cannot smile on demand to save my life these days. It's like - as much as I would love to master the look of hair loss and be done with it, I cannot. The thought of hair loss is always on my mind.
An uncomfortable expression is hardly going to be show-cased is it?
The devastating thing is, if I didn’t have recession it would make a significant change to my appearance on the scale of remarkable. That's why this just kills me.
I can imagine the situation actually. If I did have the talked about framed face once again - I could see the surprised looks on peoples faces, trying to put their finger why he looks so much better. It’s like they cannot see the difference no recession has to a person and would never be able to put their finger on it.
Its like, everyone is miffed and human intelligence goes out the window when it comes to hair loss and changes of appearance.
This mostly goes unsaid, basically because it doesn’t need to be said.
However, personally, the sad unspoken realisation is, if I at didn’t have this major recession, there would be pictures of up in my living room. I can almost guarantee it.
At the end of the day, I look at my sister and I look just like her basically. The only thing she has over me is hair, yet there is a significant difference in both of our lives.
I have fallen off the rails where she is progressing in life with her new house and boyfriend etc.
Although, I do admit - seeing no pictures does make me sad sometimes. It’s like it’s some kind of confirmation of what I look like, which I know has been severely effected by the hair loss, which would change on a 100% scale if a shocking hairline had not altered my appearance for the worst.
Parents like to show-off their sons and daughters - especially to relatives when you go to family gatherings etc. It’s like there is some kind of unspoken competition going on between how successful their sons or daughters have become. It just subtly goes on amongst all the genuine friendliness amongst the families.
Although parents will always love their kids deep down, when you’ve got hair loss, you’re hardly there to be showcased are you? It just goes on in a subtle manner.
Saying this, if you don’t have recession or it is not major, then this may not be apply to you. Face on, you should have no problem.
However, for me and others, it is. It's a problem that needs to be addressed.
I live with my parents. In our house we have loads of pictures up of my sister. Who has lovely blonde hair, not to mention the non-self-conscious look on her face in each picture. Saying that, there isn’t one picture of me.
Put the violins away please.
:wink:
There used to be pictures of me up when I had the important framed face we all talk about. At the moment, face on pictures of me aren’t the prettiest. Basically because of the recession and the effect it has had on my appearance.
Combine that with the fact I cannot smile on demand to save my life these days. It's like - as much as I would love to master the look of hair loss and be done with it, I cannot. The thought of hair loss is always on my mind.
An uncomfortable expression is hardly going to be show-cased is it?
The devastating thing is, if I didn’t have recession it would make a significant change to my appearance on the scale of remarkable. That's why this just kills me.
I can imagine the situation actually. If I did have the talked about framed face once again - I could see the surprised looks on peoples faces, trying to put their finger why he looks so much better. It’s like they cannot see the difference no recession has to a person and would never be able to put their finger on it.
Its like, everyone is miffed and human intelligence goes out the window when it comes to hair loss and changes of appearance.
This mostly goes unsaid, basically because it doesn’t need to be said.
However, personally, the sad unspoken realisation is, if I at didn’t have this major recession, there would be pictures of up in my living room. I can almost guarantee it.
At the end of the day, I look at my sister and I look just like her basically. The only thing she has over me is hair, yet there is a significant difference in both of our lives.
I have fallen off the rails where she is progressing in life with her new house and boyfriend etc.
Although, I do admit - seeing no pictures does make me sad sometimes. It’s like it’s some kind of confirmation of what I look like, which I know has been severely effected by the hair loss, which would change on a 100% scale if a shocking hairline had not altered my appearance for the worst.
Parents like to show-off their sons and daughters - especially to relatives when you go to family gatherings etc. It’s like there is some kind of unspoken competition going on between how successful their sons or daughters have become. It just subtly goes on amongst all the genuine friendliness amongst the families.
Although parents will always love their kids deep down, when you’ve got hair loss, you’re hardly there to be showcased are you? It just goes on in a subtle manner.
Saying this, if you don’t have recession or it is not major, then this may not be apply to you. Face on, you should have no problem.
However, for me and others, it is. It's a problem that needs to be addressed.
