What should a 18 year old with Androgenetic Alopecia do to get a girl

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paulie72785

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After my puberty things started going downfall with my thinning hair
I was naturally a brainiac type with a stint for searching things with but never a popular guy .....
And now combined with my Androgenetic Alopecia this feels like impossible to get a girl.....They are either interested but won't approach or just plain bein B.itches like they are .......And using minoxidil has made so many wrinkles that i look like a ****ing 30 year old ........Why does society have to be so cruel????

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Had met a girl back in summer and we got good too.....She was 5foot3 and i was 6 but we were happy.....That was when i took my haircut and she started ignoring me......b**ch said it feels like we won't be able to work it out .......This led a fight where she REPEATEDLY called me that i looked like a 30 year old.....This was truly embarassing for me coz this was my first relationship and she broke it coz i was losing my hair......How can someone be so cruel.....I was a good guy ready to help informed when to stop and good to talk too....She would always say that she is happy to be with me and me too coz i had a companion that was with me.....So why the **** did this happen....She would say if i get a job and then settle down then she would ALWAYS be with me at all the times......This sucks THIS ****ING SUCKS MAN("_")WHY DID SHE JUST LEFT ME COZ MY HAIR WAS NOT GOOD love is more than looks right??
 
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he actually does look decent
just wondering, do you think people realise he is wearing a wig now that they have seen your hair loss?
 
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EmergingIsland said:
He looks good.
So you just proved that hair piece is a viable and logical solution. Just what I said.
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He looks like Eddie Money..... with a hairpiece. It def looks like a hairpiece.

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you know what Fred, sadly me and you have A LOT in common life wise. You should feel lucky you dont have a brother whos a NW1 or youd probably mass murder your town.
 
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I think its a bit creepy you posted your dads photo and those personal informations.
 
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paulie72785 said:
After my puberty things started going downfall with my thinning hair
I was naturally a brainiac type with a stint for searching things with but never a popular guy .....
And now combined with my Androgenetic Alopecia this feels like impossible to get a girl.....They are either interested but won't approach or just plain bein B.itches like they are .......And using minoxidil has made so many wrinkles that i look like a ****ing 30 year old ........Why does society have to be so cruel????

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Had met a girl back in summer and we got good too.....She was 5foot3 and i was 6 but we were happy.....That was when i took my haircut and she started ignoring me......b**ch said it feels like we won't be able to work it out .......This led a fight where she REPEATEDLY called me that i looked like a 30 year old.....This was truly embarassing for me coz this was my first relationship and she broke it coz i was losing my hair......How can someone be so cruel.....I was a good guy ready to help informed when to stop and good to talk too....She would always say that she is happy to be with me and me too coz i had a companion that was with me.....So why the **** did this happen....She would say if i get a job and then settle down then she would ALWAYS be with me at all the times......This sucks THIS ****ING SUCKS MAN("_")WHY DID SHE JUST LEFT ME COZ MY HAIR WAS NOT GOOD love is more than looks right??
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Focus on your career man. Thats more important than that girl and definitely hair is important as well. I'm quite a handsome guy(Not trying to show off) but when it comes to girls i suck n i just don't have the guts to even speak to them.. One of the major reason is my ****ing hair.. If i had some thick hair i'd have got some self confidence
 
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EmergingIsland said:
Still better than being bald. Thanks for confirming by thoughts.
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NO ****ING WAY AM I GONNA TAKE UP A WIG.....Those are just ****ty prices of hair balls they are like just some LEAVES STUCK TO A TREE WITH GLUE man and if i do go bald ("Which is near to impossible coz replicel is advertised to be coming up BEFORE 2020 and by then im gonna be 24 with a job so i can afford it)then am gonna wear it good and any woman who comments me F*** YOU IS WHAT AM GONNA SAY COZ WHAT I HAVE IS WHAT WEAR.....EITHER REAL OR NO ****ING HAIR on my head.....BTW what could be price for replicel ANY GUESSES!!!!
 
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I fvcking hate everything associated with sluthate, puahate, pick up artists, 'do you even lift, bro', douchebags like julien blanc... basically everything related to this 'game' bullsh!t of the last 10-15 years. What the FVCK led society to become so fvcking obsessed about constantly 'banging b****s' and 'getting laid'... has that really become the standard measurement of anyones success in life?

I can't even watch a fvckin comedy anymore without feeling as if this whole trend is being shoved down my throad; 'YOU MUST GET LAID! YOU MUST HAVE A 10 GIRLFRIEND! YOU MUST LIFT!'

Fvcking christ.
 
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FredTheBelgian said:
He's suffering from deep depression. Has been all his life. He's almost never been out of the house.

He's often paranoid and takes it out on my mother and me when he's not happy about his hair, which is almost all the time.

He's never travelled, never rode a bike when it was his dream to be out on the roads. He never swims, never goes out in the sun, never goes out when it's windy.

In every relationship he had, he was very paranoid. Before telling his secret to my mother, he became very drunk and said to my aunt he was going to kill himself.

You're right, it's a very viable solution.
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Damn, Fred. If I may ask, why is your mom still with him?
 
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FredTheBelgian said:
Oddly, I see my father as sort of an example when it comes to women.

Not that he treated my mother badly (beating her for example) or anything but he just didn't care about any of her desires.

She loved to travel before she met him, worked for an airline company. She always wanted to see the world with him, go to restaurants, have a rich social life.

He hasn't given her any of that. Nothing at all. He's always mocking her, morally harassing her (and me by the way), etc. In short, my mother is pretty unhappy with him.

What strikes me the most in all this is that all the other couples in my family and our immediate circle are divorced, but not my parents.

What does that mean? That if you treat your significant other like crap, she will stay with you? That's the message I'm receiving anyway.

Now I would never treat my girlfriend like this, let's just say it has taught me not to worship women and not to give them too much.
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That is a deep post.
Post reps (HairLossTalk.com does not allow me to rep the people I find repworthy)
 
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I used to wear hats on first dates, but for the last few months I haven't. I have a really bad crown, especially for my age. At first I tried not to turn my back on them, but after a while I realized these girls didn't really seem to care, and another girl said she didn't like me with the hat. so now I just go on dates and stuff and don't even think about it. Has my male pattern baldness cost me future dates? Maybe, but it hasn't seemed like it. I had less second dates when I wore the hat
 
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FredTheBelgian said:
He's suffering from deep depression. Has been all his life. He's almost never been out of the house.

He's often paranoid and takes it out on my mother and me when he's not happy about his hair, which is almost all the time.

He's never travelled, never rode a bike when it was his dream to be out on the roads. He never swims, never goes out in the sun, never goes out when it's windy.

In every relationship he had, he was very paranoid. Before telling his secret to my mother, he became very drunk and said to my aunt he was going to kill himself.

You're right, it's a very viable solution.
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Wow, Fred, never knew this about you. It just makes me admire you more as you are not going to let history repeat itself. By the way your ongoing posts with the weeping green frog is very entertaining. The irony of the situation is that EmergingIsland has a serious case of BDD and you who went bald at a young age and in his eyes does not look "aesthetic" have the "upper hand". He is so focused on perfection he does not even have the confidence to leave his current girlfriend and date a model. From his current looks and physique, it would be very possible however because of his delusional limiting beliefs, its seems impossible for him and for you totally unbelievable. However, you have proven that his limiting belief is nothing more than a delusion. How do I know this? I shared the exact limiting beliefs he does now. And I too suffered the consequences.

One thing I am going to disagree with Emerging Island is that he is very masculine looking. Emerging Island, your long hair and lack of stubble and no body hair looks more like a "pretty boy" which is still enough to draw a model girlfriend because some women like that type. However, if any intelligent hot looking women were to read your posts on here, they would never give you the time of day. Hopefully, when you are around women, you don't constantly look for approval like you have on all the forums. Striving for perfection is a very dangerous game. Trust me, I have tried to play it and it can really screw up your mind and your life. I see its definitely screwed with your mind unfortunately. In all honesty, your hair loss is very minor and very fixable but you still dwell on the fact that you have to wait two more years to get a hair transplant. I think you are at a safe age to get one now. Have you at least had one in person consultation yet?
 
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paulie72785

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EmergingIsland said:
Well, then enjoy your involuntary celibacy. Your choice.

Also, if you believe in magic cure like Replicel coming out, you are delusional.

There will be no cure for hair loss, ask anyone.

Anyone who thinks some company will find a real cure is fooling themselves.

Best cure right now is finasteride->Transplant->Wig.

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FINE End of discussion

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Anyone besides the emerging guy has any idea about REPLICEL

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ABOUT THE BEARD
How would that be possible on finasteride man....Doesn't it inhibit DHT that grows beards????
 
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If wigs weren't viable, people wouldn't use them. Simple as that. Not my bag, but it clearly works for some people.

I personally think hair transplants are generally terrible for advanced hairloss. Even the likes of Joe tilman and nic nitro etc still only have hair that looks appealing under certain lights, in certain angles. If it's too long? it looks like ***. too short? Looks like ***.

The only time I think they are worth a damn is if you're going to shave it down. They can give a good frame to the face.

Damn, 2015 and we're still in this postion
 
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