- Reaction score
- 1,454
I was
- A NW1
- In my mid-late 20s
- complaining to @DoctorHouse daily
- very skinny, geeky, Indian
- at the start of my career earning sh*t money
Dating
- paid for dating coaches, over 1k got 0 dates
- 0 dates between 25-29
- lost virginity late at 23 to a very fat woman
Mindset
- obsessed over the slightest recession
- insecure had no believe in myself, thought I was undatable
- basement dweller, didn’t like going out
- socially awkward
- limiting beliefs , looks, race etc
How women and people treated me
- invisible, once went to a club 150 women ignored me in one night - @doubleindemnity you would have a break down if that happened to you
- women upon approaching them, would display very negative body language before opening my mouth
- emotionally abused, people talking to me in a demeaning way, making snarky remarks over my ability to pull, for example had one person say,
‘you are a good dresser, too bad about your face’
- when I did finally start going on some dates, lots of 1st dates that lead to nowhere. There was always a lack of chemistry.
- tried hobbies, meetups etc met lots of people / women, many felt sorry for me as opposed to genuinely being interested
- other guys getting a lot more attention, I was in situations where women would befriend me to pull my friend
Now, fast forward into my 30s
- having sex on first dates, with women younger than me (20s/early 30s)
- being in a position to reject women
- doing well in my career and earning x3
- more dates that go past the first date
- in best shape of my life
- get told I’m handsome
- NW2
Mindset / Style
- better understanding on how to sell myself. I have a masculine energy and vibe which I play on that women find attractive
Moral of the story
you reap what you sow
I have worked hard to get to this stage of my life , everyone that is successful does
if you think hair is the magic bullet, you will be in for a rude awakening
- A NW1
- In my mid-late 20s
- complaining to @DoctorHouse daily
- very skinny, geeky, Indian
- at the start of my career earning sh*t money
Dating
- paid for dating coaches, over 1k got 0 dates
- 0 dates between 25-29
- lost virginity late at 23 to a very fat woman
Mindset
- obsessed over the slightest recession
- insecure had no believe in myself, thought I was undatable
- basement dweller, didn’t like going out
- socially awkward
- limiting beliefs , looks, race etc
How women and people treated me
- invisible, once went to a club 150 women ignored me in one night - @doubleindemnity you would have a break down if that happened to you
- women upon approaching them, would display very negative body language before opening my mouth
- emotionally abused, people talking to me in a demeaning way, making snarky remarks over my ability to pull, for example had one person say,
‘you are a good dresser, too bad about your face’
- when I did finally start going on some dates, lots of 1st dates that lead to nowhere. There was always a lack of chemistry.
- tried hobbies, meetups etc met lots of people / women, many felt sorry for me as opposed to genuinely being interested
- other guys getting a lot more attention, I was in situations where women would befriend me to pull my friend
Now, fast forward into my 30s
- having sex on first dates, with women younger than me (20s/early 30s)
- being in a position to reject women
- doing well in my career and earning x3
- more dates that go past the first date
- in best shape of my life
- get told I’m handsome
- NW2
Mindset / Style
- better understanding on how to sell myself. I have a masculine energy and vibe which I play on that women find attractive
Moral of the story
you reap what you sow
I have worked hard to get to this stage of my life , everyone that is successful does
if you think hair is the magic bullet, you will be in for a rude awakening
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