What if you could have that hot woman...

CCS

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So you have sex...
If you use a condom, you can't feel anything. If you don't use a condom, you have to trust her to use her birth control. Most women will just insist on the condom.

If she gets pregnant, you have to decide whether to insult her by asking for a DNA test, or just go through life never knowing if the kid you invest so much in is actually yours, and never know if you passed it on. Once you sign the birth cirtificate, you are locked into child support.

Suppose you have sex when she is not fertile, and avoid it when she is. Well, haven't you heard that women are horniest when they are fertile, and more standoffish when they are not? It is a very annoying fact of nature.

Go ahead: get her pregnant. Most women will let themselves go once you've been married 2 years and a day and have signed the birth cirtificate. Now you got to sleep with a whale instead of using your hand and imagination. Don't like it? Alimony and child support then.

But how does the alpha male have so much fun? The stud with the hair can have sex with all the horny women, and just leave when they get pregnant, because some other guy will raise the kid. But we can't all be that way. We can in our imaginations, though, using our hand or some other device we invent. Just learn to enjoy it instead of thinking it is real and feeling bad you don't have it.



Point I'm trying to make is the grass is not necessarily greener.
 

Ori83

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wtf are you talking about :dunno: this is BY FAR not the dynamic between men and women... this logic applied to "sugar daddy/baby" relationships at best ...
 
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That's why I stick to oral sex and petting. Gets both of us to orgasm and no risk of pregnancy. My girl wanted to take pills, but I'm against it. It will be ruining her health.
 

CCS

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Ori83 said:
wtf are you talking about :dunno: this is BY FAR not the dynamic between men and women... this logic applied to "sugar daddy/baby" relationships at best ...

True... if you are tall. If you are short, the dynamic is very true.

And how can you say that is not the dynamic? Look at all the women who will not give a guy the time of day unless he buys her dinner or a movie. I've talked to many. They say if he does not spend money on them, they are so done with him and he better keep his hands to himself. Call it culture, but it is what it is. Most women see most men as just wallets to be used for paying for some hotter guy's kid.
 

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Women do fall in love, TRUE love, all the time. If she doesn't love you it's not because she is a money grubbing, vain, superficial b**ch, it's just because the chemistry isn't there. No women wants to grow old alone or with some jerk just for his money. Human beings in general want someone who understands them and who they trust. That's a fact.
 

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Ori83 said:
wtf are you talking about :dunno: this is BY FAR not the dynamic between men and women... this logic applied to "sugar daddy/baby" relationships at best ...


But his statement about women letting themselves go is true though.
 
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CaptainForehead said:
Ori83 said:
wtf are you talking about :dunno: this is BY FAR not the dynamic between men and women... this logic applied to "sugar daddy/baby" relationships at best ...


But his statement about women letting themselves go is true though.
Only if you marry them and make them feel safe. You should never marry and appear distant from time to time, so your woman tries to improve herself to keep you. If she feels like she has gotten you, she will let herself go.
 

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Only if you marry them and make them feel safe. You should never marry and appear distant from time to time, so your woman tries to improve herself to keep you. If she feels like she has gotten you, she will let herself go.

But if you are married, with kid, hasnt the woman owned you (unless you have a prenup)?
 
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