So you have sex...
If you use a condom, you can't feel anything. If you don't use a condom, you have to trust her to use her birth control. Most women will just insist on the condom.
If she gets pregnant, you have to decide whether to insult her by asking for a DNA test, or just go through life never knowing if the kid you invest so much in is actually yours, and never know if you passed it on. Once you sign the birth cirtificate, you are locked into child support.
Suppose you have sex when she is not fertile, and avoid it when she is. Well, haven't you heard that women are horniest when they are fertile, and more standoffish when they are not? It is a very annoying fact of nature.
Go ahead: get her pregnant. Most women will let themselves go once you've been married 2 years and a day and have signed the birth cirtificate. Now you got to sleep with a whale instead of using your hand and imagination. Don't like it? Alimony and child support then.
But how does the alpha male have so much fun? The stud with the hair can have sex with all the horny women, and just leave when they get pregnant, because some other guy will raise the kid. But we can't all be that way. We can in our imaginations, though, using our hand or some other device we invent. Just learn to enjoy it instead of thinking it is real and feeling bad you don't have it.
Point I'm trying to make is the grass is not necessarily greener.
If you use a condom, you can't feel anything. If you don't use a condom, you have to trust her to use her birth control. Most women will just insist on the condom.
If she gets pregnant, you have to decide whether to insult her by asking for a DNA test, or just go through life never knowing if the kid you invest so much in is actually yours, and never know if you passed it on. Once you sign the birth cirtificate, you are locked into child support.
Suppose you have sex when she is not fertile, and avoid it when she is. Well, haven't you heard that women are horniest when they are fertile, and more standoffish when they are not? It is a very annoying fact of nature.
Go ahead: get her pregnant. Most women will let themselves go once you've been married 2 years and a day and have signed the birth cirtificate. Now you got to sleep with a whale instead of using your hand and imagination. Don't like it? Alimony and child support then.
But how does the alpha male have so much fun? The stud with the hair can have sex with all the horny women, and just leave when they get pregnant, because some other guy will raise the kid. But we can't all be that way. We can in our imaginations, though, using our hand or some other device we invent. Just learn to enjoy it instead of thinking it is real and feeling bad you don't have it.
Point I'm trying to make is the grass is not necessarily greener.
