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I've been numb for the past week... barely managing to get some work done and not get fired.
Today, I spend 10 hours in bed after I woke up just staring at the ceiling and crying.
I know it's unusual, but I suffer from clinical depression (before finasteride.... hold your horses on the sides)
Now I feel just barely able to type this post....and please do excuse the lack of congruence,,... I cant focus too well.
I think admitting that hair loss bothers you is seen as an admission of weakness.
"Dude... it's just a vanity issue"
"You won't go out with your friends because of a stupid problem like that??"
"You're overly self-conscious"
"It's all in your head"
Why do we have to face this day in and day out? Why can't a man keep his dignity while admitting that his hair loss truly bothers him? Why are hair transplants such a stigma?
Why does everyone hate us all so much?
I can't talk to any f*****g one. I'm totally isolated... i'm a joke during lunch at work, and i often use the toilet to take a few minutes to cry 4-5 times a day... I live alone, and I can't talk to my family about my problem because for them it's silly. This past week I've just been wanting to kill myself again. (I have had suicidal ideation before)
I know I need psychiatric help before hair right now.... but I'll keep relapsing. Being at a disadvantage in the social game leaves you with little to be happy about.
I don't know how much more of taking pills to be able to walk straight rather than into an oncoming car I can take. How many more days of total isolation and lack of self respect I can survive. I'm just a walking corpse now. This is no way to live.
Today, I spend 10 hours in bed after I woke up just staring at the ceiling and crying.
I know it's unusual, but I suffer from clinical depression (before finasteride.... hold your horses on the sides)
Now I feel just barely able to type this post....and please do excuse the lack of congruence,,... I cant focus too well.
I think admitting that hair loss bothers you is seen as an admission of weakness.
"Dude... it's just a vanity issue"
"You won't go out with your friends because of a stupid problem like that??"
"You're overly self-conscious"
"It's all in your head"
Why do we have to face this day in and day out? Why can't a man keep his dignity while admitting that his hair loss truly bothers him? Why are hair transplants such a stigma?
Why does everyone hate us all so much?
I can't talk to any f*****g one. I'm totally isolated... i'm a joke during lunch at work, and i often use the toilet to take a few minutes to cry 4-5 times a day... I live alone, and I can't talk to my family about my problem because for them it's silly. This past week I've just been wanting to kill myself again. (I have had suicidal ideation before)
I know I need psychiatric help before hair right now.... but I'll keep relapsing. Being at a disadvantage in the social game leaves you with little to be happy about.
I don't know how much more of taking pills to be able to walk straight rather than into an oncoming car I can take. How many more days of total isolation and lack of self respect I can survive. I'm just a walking corpse now. This is no way to live.