amrod
I had the same as you a few weeks after starting finasteride. I can't be certain but I think that it was a mixture of being down, paranoia and the effect of finasteride. I was so sure that I couldn't get hard - so much so that I kept trying to beat myself off- but it was so pressured that it didn;t really work
The worst thing was that I was away from my girl for 4 weeks so I had no way to test how I would react.. I almost cut of my trip to see her...
I toyed with giving up finasteride but decided to stick it out.
When I arrived at her place and consumed some vino - it all went away and was rock hard - she even commented on it.
I now realise that all the time I was by myself - I wasn't really horny - I was just trying to get hard - which doesn't - and perhaps shouldn't work. Luckily that night I was so gald to see her I forgot about finasteride, hairloss and paranoia and everything fell back into place.
After that I never had any problem - except once when I was so drunk I slept naked on a boat launch - but I would have to be pretty paranoid to blame that on the finasteride.
Just try and relax and ride it out. Hopefully your body will get back in balance and you'll be back on song.
a couple of times I have been so stressed that I can;t get hard - a sometimes, can't come, but I find that the best thing to do is just slow things down, smoke a j, talk to her.
And remember women can be just as selfish as men, so get that tounge action sorted and it'll keep her coming back for more until you are firing on all cylinders!