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formerbeachblonde said:My parents wonder why I am single,still smoke and don't date.I can't be me! dam it. It sucks.I could think of a thousand other ways to describe it but nothing captures the spirit quite like that word.
I don't swim,play softball,run,go in publis without a hat,go to church,have kids or a wife.Thats right.If I had my beech blonde star like looks again,boy,that would be living.Oh yeah,I just love the way peoples eyes just roll up to your hair with a "unit".It feels like a violation.That to me is like staring at someone for missing a limb on their body.It's rude and a violation of commaon courtesey.Basically,my life sucks,because of this dreaded,useless,life zapping disease.I truely hope one day I bump into just one woman who is going through what I am.Then we can get om my huge touring motocycle and drive from coast to coast and laiugh aboit it.I am glad to have found this site.I hope people find comfort and solutions.Personally,for those old enough to remember "Quincey".Well that was the best unit I have ever seen.I need to find Klugman's hair guy.Bye for now.Sorry to bring you down. :-x
formerbeachblonde said:I am convinced I was not suppose to be bald.I will never be seen without the "system on"and 20 years after starting to go to HRS,I still am shocked, dissbelief and anger when I see myself without it.Even with the system it is very hard to fool anyone.My life is one of hats,constant awareness and anxiety.speaking for me,nobody else,I don't care if I am a guy and should deal with it.It is DEVISTATING.Even though it started my junior year in H.S in 1981.It is as if it happened overnight.
My parents wonder why I am single,still smoke and don't date.I can't be me! dam it. It sucks.I could think of a thousand other ways to describe it but nothing captures the spirit quite like that word.
I don't swim,play softball,run,go in publis without a hat,go to church,have kids or a wife.Thats right.If I had my beech blonde star like looks again,boy,that would be living.Oh yeah,I just love the way peoples eyes just roll up to your hair with a "unit".It feels like a violation.That to me is like staring at someone for missing a limb on their body.It's rude and a violation of commaon courtesey.Basically,my life sucks,because of this dreaded,useless,life zapping disease.I truely hope one day I bump into just one woman who is going through what I am.Then we can get om my huge touring motocycle and drive from coast to coast and laiugh aboit it.I am glad to have found this site.I hope people find comfort and solutions.Personally,for those old enough to remember "Quincey".Well that was the best unit I have ever seen.I need to find Klugman's hair guy.Bye for now.Sorry to bring you down. :-x
No,,you are the only one!Humpty Dumpty said:Did anyone else get a PM from Formerbeachblonde telling them to drink "koolaide with some syionide" or has my ship just come in early?
What in the name of the little green men is "koolaide" anyway? Is it as good as a "Screaming Orgasm", FBB? Cos if so, I'll have doubles. :lol:
Formerbeachblonde said:No,,you are the only one!
formerbeachblonde said:Well there are so many reactions to my posting it is amzing.Some were great,and hear my pain,others who simply see through their eyes and don't understand.
To the response,"get therapy",,I quote "do not judge your nieghbor until you have walked a mile in his shoes" male pattern baldness is not the same for all.Some people can look great bald,,some simply look like Kimo patients.Get my drift?
Thanks to all who replied,even the few which weren't exactly on target.
Others are on board with me and simply relize we must deal with what we were dealt with.I am dealing fine,me and my lab,bike and Rockford Files re runs are allI need.Believe it or not my girlfriend 10 years ago left me because of it,she "couldn't deal with it".
Take care my fellow Kojack's :wink:
That's it! I've decided. I want to be Humpty Dumpty when I grow up.So the date is definitely off then? Ah well, I shall survive. Somehow.
lentara said:That's it! I've decided. I want to be Humpty Dumpty when I grow up.So the date is definitely off then? Ah well, I shall survive. Somehow.
You have a great acid-tongued comeback for everything and I think it's FABULOUS
(This post indicates that 1. I need to hone my own quick-wit skills and 2. I need to get some of my own chutzpah since I AM already a grown woman with absolutely no hope of growing up to be Humpty :?)
rock on, humpty!