I was somewhat successful back when I was in college. I never was able to get the dimes, but I could get OK looking women with some effort. I then met the girl who later on became my fiance when we were both 22. I was probably an NW2 or something like that back then, but I didn't notice or think about it at the time, and I don't think anyone else noticed either. After 2 years I popped the question and she said yes. We both agreed that it would be best to wait a couple years though, I don't feel like getting into why, but they were good reasons.
The year after that, my baldness progressed to NW3. My fiance then became much less affectionate and she didn't want to have sex nearly as often. I didn't connect the two facts at the time, but in hindsight it's 20/20. Then, the year after that I progressed to NW4. I talked to her about actually planning the wedding itself, and then she dropped the bombshell on me. She was no longer attracted to me and wanted to break it off. I asked her I had changed or something, and she said no. I asked why she was no longer attracted to me, she told me "you're still the same guy I fell in love with, but the years have not treated your looks well". I then asked if it was my hair loss and she said "if you want an honest answer, yes".
I was in shock. We were together for FOUR YEARS and had fallen in love with each other. I still loved her even though she gained AT LEAST 70 pounds since I got with her and became obese. Yet she fell out of love with me all because of some hair?!?! Some DEAD PROTEIN?!?! How f*****g shallow is that?
That was three years ago. Since then I have been doing the best I can to find a woman. I've been working out and have a ripped body, I dress well, I get out as much as I can, I do online dating. But no matter what I do, I get rejected every time. Even the most unfortunate looking women (obese, bad teeth, ugly, etc.) reject me.
I got on the rogaine foam and generic finasteride last year but it seems to be doing f*** all. I'm about ready to just give up on it all, both trying to fight hair loss and trying to get women.
The year after that, my baldness progressed to NW3. My fiance then became much less affectionate and she didn't want to have sex nearly as often. I didn't connect the two facts at the time, but in hindsight it's 20/20. Then, the year after that I progressed to NW4. I talked to her about actually planning the wedding itself, and then she dropped the bombshell on me. She was no longer attracted to me and wanted to break it off. I asked her I had changed or something, and she said no. I asked why she was no longer attracted to me, she told me "you're still the same guy I fell in love with, but the years have not treated your looks well". I then asked if it was my hair loss and she said "if you want an honest answer, yes".
I was in shock. We were together for FOUR YEARS and had fallen in love with each other. I still loved her even though she gained AT LEAST 70 pounds since I got with her and became obese. Yet she fell out of love with me all because of some hair?!?! Some DEAD PROTEIN?!?! How f*****g shallow is that?
That was three years ago. Since then I have been doing the best I can to find a woman. I've been working out and have a ripped body, I dress well, I get out as much as I can, I do online dating. But no matter what I do, I get rejected every time. Even the most unfortunate looking women (obese, bad teeth, ugly, etc.) reject me.
I got on the rogaine foam and generic finasteride last year but it seems to be doing f*** all. I'm about ready to just give up on it all, both trying to fight hair loss and trying to get women.
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