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How do you accept the band hand? I know there are people worse off but that doesn't really make me feel any different.
Being born really short, naturally pale/ugly complexion, bad facial features, genetic dark circles balding hair + natural social anxiety
= dating death sentence
I workout, take finasteride even though it gives me slight sides, i dress well and do all those things but trust me none of that stuff matters. People will say that you need t work on 'personality' i don't think this is right.
I have never had issues making friends or fitting in. I've been hired for job i've got bad references for. I'm not some stereotypical weird loner basement dweller. I have social anxiety/quiet but can still make friends.
I can be confident when I want to as well. I'm probably more confident than most of my friends I can actually approach in clubs and bars. I'm just not the loud talkative type so confidence isn't an issue.
People will say it's because you're too desperate nope, not desperate at all. After getting my heart ripped out i'm in different.
The answer is obvious. I'm not boyfriend or relationship material. Women wan't a guy who is tall if not tall at least good looking if not good looking at least has has great social skills and is talkative. I have no redeeming qualities women find attractive.
how do you accept the band hand? how do you go without love and relationships or genuine attraction? I had it once and it was amazing and great feeling and that was with a women who is considered "low value" and "5/10 looks wise" and even when i had hair i couldn't keep her and she cheated.
Being born really short, naturally pale/ugly complexion, bad facial features, genetic dark circles balding hair + natural social anxiety
= dating death sentence
I workout, take finasteride even though it gives me slight sides, i dress well and do all those things but trust me none of that stuff matters. People will say that you need t work on 'personality' i don't think this is right.
I have never had issues making friends or fitting in. I've been hired for job i've got bad references for. I'm not some stereotypical weird loner basement dweller. I have social anxiety/quiet but can still make friends.
I can be confident when I want to as well. I'm probably more confident than most of my friends I can actually approach in clubs and bars. I'm just not the loud talkative type so confidence isn't an issue.
People will say it's because you're too desperate nope, not desperate at all. After getting my heart ripped out i'm in different.
The answer is obvious. I'm not boyfriend or relationship material. Women wan't a guy who is tall if not tall at least good looking if not good looking at least has has great social skills and is talkative. I have no redeeming qualities women find attractive.
how do you accept the band hand? how do you go without love and relationships or genuine attraction? I had it once and it was amazing and great feeling and that was with a women who is considered "low value" and "5/10 looks wise" and even when i had hair i couldn't keep her and she cheated.