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I've been an incel for my entire life up to recent time, when I got a girlfriend and lost virginity.
Because I've gotten used to being alone and because I grew to be hyper aware of the circumstances and life mechanics I understand that we are all animals and we operate based on instincts, therefore even if you manage to luck out and score a girlfriend and that's a big if, you are still walking on a thin ice that will eventually break if you are ugly and/or balding.
Even worse when you are balding, it is essentially a bomb with timer that will eventually explode and you understand that your days are counted and outcome is imminent, even more so if finasteride didn't work for you.
Then you have to risk your entire facial aesthetics by jumping on last available remedy of minoxidil and roll a dice with destiny once again - will it f*** up your collagen and age you 15 years in 1 month, will it give your dark circles under eyes, will it work at all.
When you understand that we all as animals operate on looks, it doesn't matter if you have a girlfriend, because you are aware of your situation and that right now it is just a fluke, it's a brief moment of lucking out.
It's the same if you were on death row and you'd be given best pancakes of your like for the last week. You'd not enjoy those pancakes, because you knew you'd be getting that electric chair treatment soon.
Same sh*t here.
Besides girlfriend is cope. Jerking off is to variety of p**rn is much more pleasurable and less draining.
Unless you are model tier looking male you will have to work to have girlfriend and most of the time in current society it's barter of entertainment for her time.
Basically you need to entertain this chick, to make her stay and give you time of her day. And creating entertainment is draining and exhausting as f***.
It's much better to go to a elite hooker, f*** her, and bounce home, because illusion that your girl will wait for you at home and cheer you one is major cope.
Women want strong perfect males, if you are struggle with hair loss or you are ugly you will always be in danger and under pressure and it's too mentally draining to live like that.
Because I've gotten used to being alone and because I grew to be hyper aware of the circumstances and life mechanics I understand that we are all animals and we operate based on instincts, therefore even if you manage to luck out and score a girlfriend and that's a big if, you are still walking on a thin ice that will eventually break if you are ugly and/or balding.
Even worse when you are balding, it is essentially a bomb with timer that will eventually explode and you understand that your days are counted and outcome is imminent, even more so if finasteride didn't work for you.
Then you have to risk your entire facial aesthetics by jumping on last available remedy of minoxidil and roll a dice with destiny once again - will it f*** up your collagen and age you 15 years in 1 month, will it give your dark circles under eyes, will it work at all.
When you understand that we all as animals operate on looks, it doesn't matter if you have a girlfriend, because you are aware of your situation and that right now it is just a fluke, it's a brief moment of lucking out.
It's the same if you were on death row and you'd be given best pancakes of your like for the last week. You'd not enjoy those pancakes, because you knew you'd be getting that electric chair treatment soon.
Same sh*t here.
Besides girlfriend is cope. Jerking off is to variety of p**rn is much more pleasurable and less draining.
Unless you are model tier looking male you will have to work to have girlfriend and most of the time in current society it's barter of entertainment for her time.
Basically you need to entertain this chick, to make her stay and give you time of her day. And creating entertainment is draining and exhausting as f***.
It's much better to go to a elite hooker, f*** her, and bounce home, because illusion that your girl will wait for you at home and cheer you one is major cope.
Women want strong perfect males, if you are struggle with hair loss or you are ugly you will always be in danger and under pressure and it's too mentally draining to live like that.