Do you guys go out to bars and clubs?

Feelsbadman

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I feel like i should make an effort to go out more but then every time i do go out its depressing as f*** as there are absolute chads that mogg me who are way taller , NW1, and look good
so i just stay home
 

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I do sometimes. You have to accept that tattoos and steroids are apart of our culture now, and have been for about 20 years, and it's increasing. Anyone who knows anything knows that they are the easy in for immediate attraction from women. It's the ultimate short cut. So you either join them, or realize without, in general, you'll be at a disadvantage. It's just the way it is.
 

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My advice is to go if you enjoy going to them. Don't go otherwise. I used to think that people out there were doing something super exciting but they are typically just drinking and lowering the bar for what they find exciting. Why would I listen to painfully loud club music when I prefer classical music or rock and roll? Why stay up late instead of getting to bed early so that I can start my weekend tasks feeling fresh? Why even spend those hours in the club when I could be enjoying a great book, movie or video game? Ask yourself these questions. Life is short so don't waste time but also don't delay trying something that you want to try.
 

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I do sometimes. You have to accept that tattoos and steroids are apart of our culture now, and have been for about 20 years, and it's increasing. Anyone who knows anything knows that they are the easy in for immediate attraction from women. It's the ultimate short cut. So you either join them, or realize without, in general, you'll be at a disadvantage. It's just the way it is.
This is so true. Tattoos and muscles seem to have mass appeal to women, even those that say they don't like it seem to get their switch flipped by men sporting this look. I have nothing at all against it, but I'm pleased to have avoided it. I'm married now but tend to get attention from women (some fairly younger too) from simply talking with them and having a laugh. I've always been a bit mischievous and am very confident in who I am, whether people do or don't like me, I've just long grown out of caring how I am perceived. I'm also very hard working and ambitious, women seem to like this.
 

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I feel like i should make an effort to go out more but then every time i do go out its depressing as f*** as there are absolute chads that mogg me who are way taller , NW1, and look good
so i just stay home

I feel like i should make an effort to go out more but then every time i do go out its depressing as f*** as there are absolute chads that mogg me who are way taller , NW1, and look good
so i just stay home
If you don't enjoy that environment, don't go. What you need to realise is that the majority of men don't have much luck with women in bars and nightclubs. Back when I used to spend lots of time in those places, the majority of my friends did not do well at all, even though they had success with women outside of this environment (work / gym / network etc). They went out to have fun, party, dance, enjoy the music. Interestingly, the more they stopped looked for women and just focused on having a great time, they started to attract the opposite sex. But if you don't like it, don't do it, it doesn't matter. Just do what you're comfortable with and try to enjoy it man. Or go and try tapping in to the market of women that feel they can't compete with the super hot women, appreciate it's easier said than done, but give it go, you never know.
 

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I do sometimes. You have to accept that tattoos and steroids are apart of our culture now, and have been for about 20 years, and it's increasing. Anyone who knows anything knows that they are the easy in for immediate attraction from women. It's the ultimate short cut. So you either join them, or realize without, in general, you'll be at a disadvantage. It's just the way it is.
yea women love dudes with tattoos and roids seems os commmon now
 

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i go to bars, always have and most likely will do so for the next ten years at least...

there is no point in going if you hate it, dont enjoy the music, or just hang around at the bar alone (unless you like that), of course...

in case you are mainly alone at home, i would say try it every once in a while, you might meet people... if it still sucks, then just go somewhere else, where you enjoy it...
 

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i go to bars, always have and most likely will do so for the next ten years at least...

there is no point in going if you hate it, dont enjoy the music, or just hang around at the bar alone (unless you like that), of course...

in case you are mainly alone at home, i would say try it every once in a while, you might meet people... if it still sucks, then just go somewhere else, where you enjoy it...

i go to bars, only with friends and dates
 

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Used to go to nightclubs/pubs when I was going through my divorce(mid 20s). Straddled a few women.....engaged, married, long term boyfriend, BBW, single mums with purple stretched marked tums, and women in their naughty 40s.

Did have the doorman look ie sly, with the goatee and the mean demeanour.......best I could get.
 

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Straddled them all silly with my 8inch willy. Gave them what I had in my ginger tea-bags, and they took it home for they're spouses.
 

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Clubs I don't bother with as I feel like they are for teens. But I go to bars weekly and sometimes more upmarket ones. I would say go for it, it's not just about getting girls, many guys/girls are in relationships and there for fun with their friends and also meeting new people. It's a way of socialising but you have to be in the right mindset and with the right group of people - that is something you will need to build in order to enjoy the occasion. Otherwise you may end up returning depressed and lonely from the sound of your posts.

These days I love dressing like this to an upmarket place, good times.

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But even if you dress more casually like I do in normal bars, having good shoes, trousers/jeans and a shirt/jumper goes a long way, women appreciate a guy who takes care of himself and is fun to be around. Career and a nice car goes a long way too once she realises your fun to be around.
 

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I feel like i should make an effort to go out more but then every time i do go out its depressing as f*** as there are absolute chads that mogg me who are way taller , NW1, and look good
so i just stay home
You don't have any singles meet up groups in your area? Pick a group that interests you. Do you have a dog? Look to self enhance yourself by going to the community college and taking a course that interests you. You need to find a common interest that other people share besides this hair loss forum.

I can tell you this place is a good start if you want to get your feet wet on meeting and talking to total strangers who have something in common with you. Just do the same with something else you enjoy. You many even want to find lectures to go to that deal with how to overcome anxiety or depression. I have learned that the more educated you become the more interesting you become when you have to socialize.

I remember one of the common complements I got from women when dating was that I was so interesting and engaging. And I kind of felt the same way when I met women. Nobody wants a boring person to be around. If you don't know how to engage in conversation, most women will ghost you unless they find you totally physically attractive. If they do, they don't care what comes out of our mouth, they care more about what comes out of your pants.
 

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Those 4 specimens in the above pic look like ponce bonces. Mannequins devoid of anything between the Auris Interna.

The type of "men" their partners look to me for to straddle them good and proper.

Bone density of a Sparrow and wispy "designer" stubble.......yeah.
 

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When bald one should strive to mirror the big hairy scary bald monster stance.

The Rock is a personal inspiration of mine. Or as he is affectionately known in blighty, "The Sock"
 
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