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I'm a 36 y/o who's been wearing about a 6" diameter lace system on my crown for the past year. It's been completely undetectable, has survived hours-long sweaty workouts, diving into pools, etc. I love the way I look. No one suspects anything, not even my own family (and my now wife... at least she hasn't mentioned it) because I started wearing after growing my hair out after having it buzzed for a long time. I used concealer to help hide the bald spot until the sides were long enough for a decent blend. So in the end everyone just assumes I grew it out.
Now the front part of my hair is getting pretty diffuse and I need to make a decision as to whether I want to replace all the way up to my hairline, which is going to be a lot more risky.
I'm scared about my wife finding out and being upset about me not being honest with her up front about it when I first met her. But when is it ever a good time to reveal to a girl that you're wearing??
So, it's been a year and no one has suspected, and I have full confidence that the shop I go to will do a phenomenal job if I decide to include the hairline. The decision has got me thinking about the long term viability of this. Yes I've pulled it off for a year, but what about the next 50 years? Over the course of that time, my wife is bound to find out eventually. During sex she grabbed the back of my head and I noticed her finger run along the edge of the system. For a moment her hand paused as if to investigate, but I quickly switched positions before she went any further and all was good.
I am seriously considering ditching the system and buzzing again before it's too late for me to go back. I feel if I wait some years longer, the hair loss will be too advanced to go back without it being obvious. So, I'm really on the fence about it and I'm wondering if anyone had similar thoughts about long term wearing and how you dealt with them. What turned out to be a fun and successful experiment, has now made me feel like I painted myself into a corner.
Now the front part of my hair is getting pretty diffuse and I need to make a decision as to whether I want to replace all the way up to my hairline, which is going to be a lot more risky.
I'm scared about my wife finding out and being upset about me not being honest with her up front about it when I first met her. But when is it ever a good time to reveal to a girl that you're wearing??
So, it's been a year and no one has suspected, and I have full confidence that the shop I go to will do a phenomenal job if I decide to include the hairline. The decision has got me thinking about the long term viability of this. Yes I've pulled it off for a year, but what about the next 50 years? Over the course of that time, my wife is bound to find out eventually. During sex she grabbed the back of my head and I noticed her finger run along the edge of the system. For a moment her hand paused as if to investigate, but I quickly switched positions before she went any further and all was good.
I am seriously considering ditching the system and buzzing again before it's too late for me to go back. I feel if I wait some years longer, the hair loss will be too advanced to go back without it being obvious. So, I'm really on the fence about it and I'm wondering if anyone had similar thoughts about long term wearing and how you dealt with them. What turned out to be a fun and successful experiment, has now made me feel like I painted myself into a corner.