Can You Get Attractive Women As A Baldie

jasonstatham

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Did you use cold approach back in those days?



I don't get tired of typing it just the same as I don't get tired of persevering and continually trying to go on dates. It's futile but I keep going. Anyway, you are right and I will add 'personally' and 'in my experience' in my posts. However, I honestly do not see 'plenty of bald guys with an attractive face who are dating a pretty girl'. Most bald guys I know are older (in the 'went bald after meeting her' category) or just as ****ed as I am, but putting on a brave face, unlike me. Or they have much less aggressive hair loss e.g. NW3.

I'd say that my worst moments were being unable to get anywhere with a 3/10. Maybe it's not 2 but it's a matter of semantics at that point. You're a straight talker for sure, but based on my experiences, I'd still disagree. Please could you advise me about what to do to cultivate a look to complement me or introduce personality changes? You can PM it to me if you want.

The best that I've had in dating were women who had a good time with me, spent hours talking to me and telling me about themselves etc. but reacting badly when I tried to move things forward romantically in any way. That's the best that you can get as a baldie, as far as my experiences tell me: a single fun date with an attractive woman.

this isnt the right Forum to go for dating advice but I still ask: What are you doing on dates and what is your gameplan on it? You heard about the "day one bang" plan? if not goggle it. You get dates. So something is f*****g it up on your dates. If you are a Goblin, why you get dates? So you arent one.
 

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also yes theres a small niche for twinks like yourself baldingat18. unfortunately you cant fulfill it as a norwood

which is why im so down about my situation. i cud have done the twink thing before hair loss but now im f*****g screwed
 

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Yes , yes you can.

Source : 5”6 balding Manlet once had sex with two 9/10 girls at the same time
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also yes theres a small niche for twinks like yourself baldingat18. unfortunately you cant fulfill it as a norwood

which is why im so down about my situation. i cud have done the twink thing before hair loss but now im f*****g screwed

Just shave it & grow a beard bro!
 

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also yes theres a small niche for twinks like yourself baldingat18. unfortunately you cant fulfill it as a norwood

which is why im so down about my situation. i cud have done the twink thing before hair loss but now im f*****g screwed

same here i was short but slim and with good hair, without that hair.... feelsbadman you lose the cute look
 

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also yes theres a small niche for twinks like yourself baldingat18. unfortunately you cant fulfill it as a norwood

which is why im so down about my situation. i cud have done the twink thing before hair loss but now im f*****g screwed

Lol I was kidding anyways about the 9/10 girl. I mean I guess there’s a niche , pretty much anyone can get a relationship if they are willing to settle. You won’t be a “player “ though unless your a true chad.
 

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Lol I was kidding anyways about the 9/10 girl. I mean I guess there’s a niche , pretty much anyone can get a relationship if they are willing to settle. You won’t be a “player “ though unless your a true chad.
1/4 of the men in Norway are childless at age 45 and most of them want to have children. Women would rather have children with a man who already has kids, than a man not up to their sky high standards.
So, you're wrong in your claim "that pretty much anyone can get a relationship if they are willing to settle." What do you even base this claim on?
Here's my source: http://sciencenordic.com/quarter-norwegian-men-never-father-children
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1/4 of the men in Norway are childless at age 45 and most of them want to have children. Women would rather have children with a man who already has kids, than a man not up to their sky high standards.
So, you're wrong in your claim "that pretty much anyone can get a relationship if they are willing to settle." What do you even base this claim on?
Here's my source: http://sciencenordic.com/quarter-norwegian-men-never-father-children
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There might be some mistake.
The article is indirectly talking about ?divorce mothers/?single mother with a child.
This mothers are more likely to have child from ex husband or from guy who left them..
 

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There might be some mistake.
The article is indirectly talking about ?divorce mothers/?single mother with a child.
This mothers are more likely to have child from ex husband or from guy who left them..
No. In your case men and women would have an equal percentage of childlessness, but they don't as the article explicitly points out. The article also explicitly says "What actually happens often is that men who are already fathers get recycled."
 

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Lol I was kidding anyways about the 9/10 girl. I mean I guess there’s a niche , pretty much anyone can get a relationship if they are willing to settle. You won’t be a “player “ though unless your a true chad.
lol man u know what i mean by niche. by that i mean quality females will like you, not f*****g garbage
 

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Lol I was kidding anyways about the 9/10 girl. I mean I guess there’s a niche , pretty much anyone can get a relationship if they are willing to settle. You won’t be a “player “ though unless your a true chad.
Were you "just kidding" about this post, too?

20 and no one has really noticed. Its minor diffuse at this point.
 

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Did you use cold approach back in those days?



I don't get tired of typing it just the same as I don't get tired of persevering and continually trying to go on dates. It's futile but I keep going. Anyway, you are right and I will add 'personally' and 'in my experience' in my posts. However, I honestly do not see 'plenty of bald guys with an attractive face who are dating a pretty girl'. Most bald guys I know are older (in the 'went bald after meeting her' category) or just as ****ed as I am, but putting on a brave face, unlike me. Or they have much less aggressive hair loss e.g. NW3.

I'd say that my worst moments were being unable to get anywhere with a 3/10. Maybe it's not 2 but it's a matter of semantics at that point. You're a straight talker for sure, but based on my experiences, I'd still disagree. Please could you advise me about what to do to cultivate a look to complement me or introduce personality changes? You can PM it to me if you want.

The best that I've had in dating were women who had a good time with me, spent hours talking to me and telling me about themselves etc. but reacting badly when I tried to move things forward romantically in any way. That's the best that you can get as a baldie, as far as my experiences tell me: a single fun date with an attractive woman.
Ya woman will talk to you but the boundaries stay in the friend zone
 

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Yeah it seems hard. I still have some hair on top so I get a fair amount of Tinder matches even from attractive ladies. But somewhere along the ride they decide that I'm not worth their time, be it because of my balding or something else. I'm not gonna rate anyone on a scale of 1 to 10 but the 2 women which I both dated for about 2 months recently (not at the same time of course) were probably below me both in looks and in status. I'm slim, in shape, I have a good education, job, steady income and have a "decent" face. But yeah, I'm pretty bald and shortish (5.7"). And I still wasn't good enough. So go figure.
 

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Yeah it seems hard. I still have some hair on top so I get a fair amount of Tinder matches even from attractive ladies. But somewhere along the ride they decide that I'm not worth their time, be it because of my balding or something else. I'm not gonna rate anyone on a scale of 1 to 10 but the 2 women which I both dated for about 2 months recently (not at the same time of course) were probably below me both in looks and in status. I'm slim, in shape, I have a good education, job, steady income and have a "decent" face. But yeah, I'm pretty bald and shortish (5.7"). And I still wasn't good enough. So go figure.

I personally think this x/10 bullshit is where people go wrong. I never even thought of ranking someone out of 10 before i discovered these forums, I think it's another American thing.

I've dated some people who you would consider below and above me in the scale and I didn't think
"oh sh*t,they are 2 points below me, time to break it off" or
"holy sh*t this bird is 3.5 points higher than me, I have to break it off because it's inevitable she will get railed by Chad or Tyrone when my back is turned"

If you like someone's personality and are physically attracted to someone,who gives a sh*t. I think when you start overanalysing things it does you no favours as insecurity and jealousy will rear it's ugly head.
 

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^ Yeah that's partly what happened to me, but I think it was already over by then. She was already seeking for someone else on the dating site we met, who knows if she regulated there this whole time we were seeing? I'm pretty crushed right now... unfortunately I'm feeling a bit self-destructive.

She still hasn't said that it's over in plain words but I think it tells you a lot if she can't answer to simple "how you're doing?" or "have a nice day!" messages. Those are the kinda messages we used to send to each other when everything was ok. Unfortunately it's a women's market out there and they can just switch on the fly if they feel like it. It's bound to make men insecure, especially men who are not alphas or players.
 

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I’m a nw5 and get hit on daily by women of all ages and sizes. My job is in a university so naturally it happens. If you are a sad, miserable, delusional and arrogant cuck like OP though, women will simply not care. They will make eye contact, they will say hello, yes you may not be their first choice or they may not fall in love with you and your horseshoe. But you being sociable and mature opens the door for more. It may not be day 1, but day 99 and after you have interacted for some time, she will easily let you know she’s available. In fact that’s day 14 max if she’s a college student. You having allowed for all that and you being mature and alert to pick up on her behavior will lead to more. Sex, relationship, whatever. And that’s how you build. If you don’t build with experiences, how on earth will you reach that “chad” level? Say Tsuji comes tomorrow and it’s free. And you go nw0, you’re practically an ape. Hair everywhere. What difference will that make in how you approach women? None. Because when you realize they don’t give a f*** about hair, you will be back on stage one, complete confusion. How will you perform in bed? Horribly, because you have been posting here and taking antiandrogens instead of slaying average looking women but you’re so high and mighty you can’t possibly do them the favor. How will you be in relationships as a nw0? Like a nw7 and a virgin. You had no relationships, your only ones are your minoxidil and guess what, it ain’t that simple. You can’t start-stop and leave it in a drawer. So why the f*** are you asking? It’s no coincidence that 90% of hair loss community is cucks and virgins with narcissism and social problems existing before balding. That’s why nobody takes balding seriously. Half of you think reading some dumb ncbi article makes you a scientist. No, you’re junkies. You get your fix by putting chemicals in your head and body, simple as that. Tsuji says he’ll fix baldness and before you know it, you’re all complaining about price, distance, this and that. You’re miserable OP, that’s pretty much it. Baldness is just the condition to blame for you not being man enough to do what’s right. There are no “but” and “if”. Half of you in this forum aren’t even bald. I’m a nw5 diffuse I can’t even have a transplant yet I do my best to have a life that the thing I said apply. What, should I just f*****g wait to be “chad” and then all my dreams will come true? You guys should really get a grip of how the world works. I bet if I told you let’s go with an escort, you’d say “no I have to work out first and get in shape”. The world doesn’t care. If you realize how many average guys have a happy and full life, you’ll go mental. You just want to be the prettiest kid in the room to feel good, that’s all this is. Oh boo hoo mommy that kid has hair and I’ve less, I don’t wanna go out again. Man up. Man the F up and go wither your pretty image. Nobody cares about it. Instead, you being almost 30 and immature or scared will be like a fart in the wind. Everyone will notice.
 
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