Anybody here feel like youre running out of time to find a wife?

[BaldingintrovertVirgin]

Iam 28 years old with severe diffuse thinning. Ive tried finasteride,but stopped because it gave me PFS. Ive also tried min and stopped because it gave me dry eyes,vision problems , and rapid heartbeat. Enough is enough i dont wanna mess anymore with anti androgen. The only way to cope with this crap is just to deal with it and make this condition as your new normal.

Listen, i dont give a sh*t anymore about my hair but how the hell can i find a wife if my hair look like crap? Please give me suggestion. I wish i was born in India because i heard they still practicing arrange marriage.Iam an introvert and i dont know how to be a confidence if my hair look like crap. My hair was my life, my hair was everything and now God decided to take it from me...

 

[thatslin]

Couldn't agree more. I relate alot. I dont have severe diffuse loss but its slowly going. Also tried pills like finasteride and dutasteride and got PFS from saw palmetto years ago. Try topical RU with oral minoxidil thats what I use now. Im also an introvert and single at 36.

Bro what is your dosage of oral min and do you get any sides from it? I get severe water retension all over my body and am bloated af even with 2-3 mg oral min ED.
BTW you don't seem like an introvert on here though lol

 

[ben760]

Please give me suggestion.

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[justinbieberscombover]

Couldn't agree more. I relate alot. I dont have severe diffuse loss but its slowly going. Also tried pills like finasteride and dutasteride and got PFS from saw palmetto years ago. Try topical RU with oral minoxidil thats what I use now. Im also an introvert and single at 36.

Did you try stuff like proviron, clomid for PFS? You might be able to reverse it

 

[losingbattle88]

Did you try stuff like proviron, clomid for PFS? You might be able to reverse it

No I didnt. I heard one guy reverse his ejaculation force on clomid.

 

[John4445]

No longer I believe in God. I may regret saying this, but it has to be Said, I threw away all my religious artifacts in the trash just now, in a fit of rage. There can not be a God. It does not mesh with the worldview that I currently have gotten through a lifetime of pain.

 

[debyne]

There is no God watching over you and intervening. This was mankind's greatest lie to keep us behaving and hoping for something better after this life.

 

[Oknow]

Listen, i dont give a sh*t anymore about my hair but how the hell can i find a wife if my hair look like crap?

Get a hair system or rock being bald.

 

[Xander94]

over

 

[Oknow]

@DoctorHouse

 

[whatintheworld]

No longer I believe in God. I may regret saying this, but it has to be Said, I threw away all my religious artifacts in the trash just now, in a fit of rage. There can not be a God. It does not mesh with the worldview that I currently have gotten through a lifetime of pain.

Congrats, you were one of the chosen ones designated to suffer here, if you pass this test your next level in the game will be much better.

 

[Illusions]

Iam 28 years old with severe diffuse thinning. Ive tried finasteride,but stopped because it gave me PFS. Ive also tried min and stopped because it gave me dry eyes,vision problems , and rapid heartbeat. Enough is enough i dont wanna mess anymore with anti androgen. The only way to cope with this crap is just to deal with it and make this condition as your new normal.

Listen, i dont give a sh*t anymore about my hair but how the hell can i find a wife if my hair look like crap? Please give me suggestion. I wish i was born in India because i heard they still practicing arrange marriage.Iam an introvert and i dont know how to be a confidence if my hair look like crap. My hair was my life, my hair was everything and now God decided to take it from me...

You are using your hair loss as an excuse for having poor game, you may be running out of time, but this is due to your own insecurity and not down to hair loss. How many times do you see a hot woman with a bald guy? In fact it's pretty common

Women care about their own hair, not your hair, sure everyone looks better with hair, but women aren't looking for someone who has a full head of hair, they are looking for a man who can provide a good life for her and future offsprings and be her rock whenever she has a bad day

Women would not be attracted to a guy with a thick, full head of hair if he is not in shape and/or has nothing else going for him

 

[Illusions]

Shave your head, Get arm sleeve tattoos, grow a curly moustache and hang out in record stores in gentrified areas. Find some super entitled liberal hipster b**ch with bangs to destroy your life. Find a wife? The f*** you want a wife for?

LMAO, I also recommend making sure she also has blue hair and nose piercings

 

[Illusions]

Iam 28 years old with severe diffuse thinning. Ive tried finasteride,but stopped because it gave me PFS. Ive also tried min and stopped because it gave me dry eyes,vision problems , and rapid heartbeat. Enough is enough i dont wanna mess anymore with anti androgen. The only way to cope with this crap is just to deal with it and make this condition as your new normal.

Listen, i dont give a sh*t anymore about my hair but how the hell can i find a wife if my hair look like crap? Please give me suggestion. I wish i was born in India because i heard they still practicing arrange marriage.Iam an introvert and i dont know how to be a confidence if my hair look like crap. My hair was my life, my hair was everything and now God decided to take it from me...

"God decided to take it from me" I can tell from this statement alone you have a severe victim complex, your name even mentions how you are an introverted virgin, let's be honest, you still wouldn't have found a wife even if you never started balding, you'd just come up with some other excuse like bad skin, height, etc

There are people who have lost limbs, gone blind, suffered acid attacks, lost their parents at a young age who still get up and go about their life, I am not trying to be rude but if you ever want to find a wife you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and play the hand you are dealt, it's not like you are alone either, literally 50% of men will eventually go bald and I promise you women do not care

 

[Illusions]

There is no God watching over you and intervening. This was mankind's greatest lie to keep us behaving and hoping for something better after this life.

Proof? Truth is there is no proof, from religious extremists to 100% convinced atheists, nobody knows for sure, you may think you do but you are wrong. We could be living in the year 2324 and this is all just a hyper realistic simulation for all you know

 

[resu]

Your 30's will pass in a blink of an eye, the 35 year old barrier is real and the midlife crisis starts to creep in.

 

[debyne]

Proof? Truth is there is no proof, from religious extremists to 100% convinced atheists, nobody knows for sure, you may think you do but you are wrong. We could be living in the year 2324 and this is all just a hyper realistic simulation for all you know

Proof is there's zero evidence of such a thing. The burden of proof is on those declaring it to be true vs me trying to prove a negative.

Until I get proof that such a thing exists, I will live my life as if it doesn't.

 

[Illusions]

Proof is there's zero evidence of such a thing. The burden of proof is on those declaring it to be true vs me trying to prove a negative.

Until I get proof that such a thing exists, I will live my life as if it doesn't.

Do you even know the basic concept of religion? Every religion is based around faith and belief hence why there's no "evidence", seems you are uneducated in this topic based on your reasoning here

You must also believe in absolutely no afterlife at all then if you only go off evidence, so when we die it's just darkness forever as if we are sleeping for eternity?

Also, let's say someone is murdered and nobody was ever charged with the crime (something that has happened countless times), the murdered didn't then exist in your opinion since there wasn't enough evidence found for anyone to be convicted? Or perhaps people who have had allegations against them and let go due to lack of evidence, you believe that nobody has ever been allowed to walk free after committing a crime right?

 

[Jpw1999]

I spent all of my late teens and early 20s rotting in my room due to depression (had it before finasteride), never dated or had sex. I met a girl recently but I can't even talk to her without thinking if she is noticing the bald spots on the sides of my hair, I also know that she would not even look at me twice if I was bald.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

I spent all of my late teens and early 20s rotting in my room due to depression (had it before finasteride), never dated or had sex. I met a girl recently but I can't even talk to her without thinking if she is noticing the bald spots on the sides of my hair, I also know that she would not even look at me twice if I was bald.

You can't hide the bald spots from her, or make her not see you in different angles, so at this point don't worry about it. She is well aware and still likes you with them. Because of this stupid forum, I used to worry about things like that when I started dating my gf a few years ago.

People were also telling me she would run away if she knew I had hair transplants and it was complete nonsense.

I think the only time girls truly run away is when the guy won't shut up about his balding insecurity 24/7 so it consumes him and becomes his entire personality.