I care about other people. But I think it is easy for people on this board to bond because we all have a common goal (fighting hair loss and depression), and we generally have a similar problem (hair loss and the people who reject us for it). But I've talked to many guys who complain that no one loves them, and then asked them a question to find out if they love other people. I asked some straight men who did not mind wrestling each other and sitting next to each other (they were all in decent shape and good friends), "if one of your friends here were the last gay man on earth, and was depressed because he did not have a partner, would you at least let him sit in your lap just so he could enjoy a little excitement, and not just burn with passion his whole life?" They all said no. Often people will come up with excusses like "it is wrong to be gay", but surprisingly, these guys did not drag their feet with excusses. They told me that friendship is about symbiosis, not sympathy. They elaborated further that all relationships are extremely selfish, and that that is how they are supposed to be. I was discusted but not surprised, since I'd already noticed that many people don't care about me or others. I'm guessing maybe 15% of people care about other people. I believe if there is someone you don't care about, then there is no one you do care about. Obviously if someone steals your car, you don't have to feel "love" for them. But given the opportunity to give that person excruciating pain the rest of his life, you should decline the opportunity since it was just a car. That is what I mean by love. A non-loving person has no limits and sees others as toys for their amuzement, but may not realize it now, and thinks he loves his friends and family, but behaves because his life is happy and he has other social influences. I picked the gay question because most people know it is socially acceptable to turn down a gay man, so they would be more likely to state their true beliefs if they did not care about him.