Acceptance stage....thinking of buzzing. Want some opinions.

shookwun

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you can definitely accept it, but like anything the desire, and conscious feelings towards oneself will always come back. It rely is a constant battle.
 

buckthorn

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So much pessimism on this sight. I'm going to own this sh*t. Lol

Yeah man, you look good. You definitely have the right head shape for it. If you can be happy bald, then you are my new inspiration. I have somewhat similar features. Just grow some stubble on your face and you're set.
 

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Yeah man, you look good. You definitely have the right head shape for it. If you can be happy bald, then you are my new inspiration. I have somewhat similar features. Just grow some stubble on your face and you're set.

I just saw my dad fight it his whole life and I didn't want to deal with that. It still bothers him and he wears a hat all the time now. I would rather get it out the way. I'm still going to try to regrow though. If it doesn't work F it.

He has a bad power donut going on. The sum beach owned life though. Beautiful wife, great kids :), about to have a good retirement, classic car, motorcycle, and a nice house on some land. Yet still ashamed of the hair loss. I say screw it. lol.
 

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I just saw my dad fight it his whole life and I didn't want to deal with that. It still bothers him and he wears a hat all the time now. I would rather get it out the way. I'm still going to try to regrow though. If it doesn't work F it.

Like your attitude.
 

shookwun

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I just saw my dad fight it his whole life and I didn't want to deal with that. It still bothers him and he wears a hat all the time now. I would rather get it out the way. I'm still going to try to regrow though. If it doesn't work F it.

He has a bad power donut going on. The sum beach owned life though. Beautiful wife, great kids :), about to have a good retirement, classic car, motorcycle, and a nice house on some land. Yet still ashamed of the hair loss. I say screw it. lol.

Some men can't deal with it, but I give respects and kudos to those that can acknowledge, and live with it.

My father went the hair piece route for 10 years then went sly, and has been at it for the last fifteen year or so.


It takes strong character to embrace and work with it.

I cant do it unfortunately.
 

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Sure you are.
As long as he does not get alot of female rejection, I think he will own it. Being tall, fit and dark skin is definitely in his favor. I think he looks good with a buzz cut. Even it grows out slightly, he will still look good.
 

jd_uk

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Guy who fails to see that the problem isn't the loss of hair, but the challenge it creates, and that acceptance is as valid a resolution to the problem as full NW1 regrowth. Also guy who seems to blame all of life's shortcomings on AA when the real cause is his obsessive character (that caused him to obsess over issue in the first place) and now finds comfort in spreading his negative view on hairloss forums as some type of catharthic exercise.

Yes, maybe not fully irrelevant but not worth much.

Spot on. You'll do well. Fred will be a loser for a long time until maybe (if he's lucky) one day he'll wake up.
 

FWIW

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jd I really dont know what you have against Fred. Im similar case to him and I can relate to all what he says regarding impact of hairloss.
 

FIshnc13

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What shortcomings? I'm quite happy with my life. But I'm not exactly bald anymore though.

Acceptance doesn't work, especially when you have registered on this forum.

Been there, done that.

Just wanted some opinions on rather my hair was bad enough to warrant the buzz from people that may have been in the same boat. lol
 

FWIW

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Yeah, this is better shaved, but not slick bald, let something there. Regarding perception from society - it wont change much - you will slip into "baldy" bracket and will look very similar to other bald shaved guys -you will lose your previous identity and you will have to build up new one - big, ripped, bald, bad guy - if you want to have atleast 10% of life comfort of NW1s. You facial features are quite optimal for the badass look, so you might do well in your new role.
 

jd_uk

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How am I a loser again?

I honestly just don't know where to start.

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Yeah, this is better shaved, but not slick bald, let something there. Regarding perception from society - it wont change much - you will slip into "baldy" bracket and will look very similar to other bald shaved guys -you will lose your previous identity and you will have to build up new one - big, ripped, bald, bad guy - if you want to have atleast 10% of life comfort of NW1s. You facial features are quite optimal for the badass look, so you might do well in your new role.

Yes...you will have to...if you have a depressive personality.

This is more of an impact forum post but found these two things just by chance yesterday:

1) a bald guy stealing the gf/ex gf of his pretty NW1 teammate. Not saying it's great behaviour but the point is some of the loser personalities on the impact forum e.g. Fred would preach that this sort of thing isn't possible. ('The bald guy is always one step away from losing his girl to a nice NW1 guy, i'm a wimp bla bla')

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-3500100/Danish-player-Christian-Keller-defends-having-relationship-team-mate-s-wife-calls-stay-club-dropped.html#article-3500100

2) Australian dating in the dark. Bald guy who again, most of the depressive characters on this forum would say looks like sh*t turning down the chance to meet the hot girl who agreed to meet him after she saw him and liked his appearance in the light. Minute 43 i think. Oh, the other guys all had pretty hair. I know...impossible right!

https://youtu.be/4TWQCm_Tumg

Again, to the OP, you look great. The shaved look gives you a masculine presence (my genuine opinion). Own it and you'll be 100× the man of the wimpy forum trolls on here who want you to feel as bad as they do.
 

FWIW

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I honestly just don't know where to start.

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Yes...you will have to...if you have a depressive personality.

This is more of an impact forum post but found these two things just by chance yesterday:

1) a bald guy stealing the gf/ex gf of his pretty NW1 teammate. Not saying it's great behaviour but the point is some of the loser personalities on the impact forum e.g. Fred would preach that this sort of thing isn't possible. ('The bald guy is always one step away from losing his girl to a nice NW1 guy, i'm a wimp bla bla')

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/fo...-calls-stay-club-dropped.html#article-3500100

2) Australian dating in the dark. Bald guy who again, most of the depressive characters on this forum would say looks like sh*t turning down the chance to meet the hot girl who agreed to meet him after she saw him and liked his appearance in the light. Minute 43 i think. Oh, the other guys all had pretty hair. I know...impossible right!

https://youtu.be/4TWQCm_Tumg

Again, to the OP, you look great. The shaved look gives you a masculine presence (my genuine opinion). Own it and you'll be 100× the man of the wimpy forum trolls on here who want you to feel as bad as they do.


Show me your hairloss and if you have atleast 50% hairloss like I do and your life is great despite that, I will sincerely admit its just my fault,that I couldnt keep quality of my life and Im looser by character and not by appearance
 

Mach

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I'd trim that arm hair and the eyebrow. I set my beard trimmer to 7-10 I think and trim mine. I also hit my legs at a 10.

buzz looks way better IMO
 

ivan3344

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buzz is the best option for now. Maybe you can try hair transplant if you want hair someday, maybe not.
 

PappinAce

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I wish this were true for everyone! Did you have a good experience with finasteride?
 

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#1 or no guard. Need some opinions. Lol
 
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