A Page From A Depressed Man's Diary (#venting)

[Japnicks India]

i wish i was indian or pakistani because at least then you will get an arranged marriage (i am not sure if the Hindus do arranged marriage?)

Those days are gone, yes the concept of arrange marriage still exists but with a clause that if the girl & boy after meeting would like to marry. So she won’t be forced to marry a baldie, its her wish.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Same with me severe baldness and a TON of health problems.
I honestly don't care if I say personal stuff online.

I got:
Aspergers syndrome.
Social anxiety.
Depression.
Panic attacks.
Asthma.
Allergies.
IBS
GERD/acid reflux
PTSD.
Dissoactive seizures(NON epileptic)
Chronic nerve pain issues in certain areas on my body/painful varicose veins.
Chronic epidyimitus
Right shoulder instability issue.
BPPV
Sinus issues
Post nasal drip.
Long sighted in 1 eye, short sighted in the other.

My condolences my brother. I wish you the best and encourage you to explore your issues here.

 

[Japnicks India]

Same with me severe baldness and a TON of health problems.
I honestly don't care if I say personal stuff online.

I got:
Aspergers syndrome.
Social anxiety.
Depression.
Panic attacks.
Asthma.
Allergies.
IBS
GERD/acid reflux
PTSD.
Dissoactive seizures(NON epileptic)
Chronic nerve pain issues in certain areas on my body/painful varicose veins.
Chronic epidyimitus
Right shoulder instability issue.
BPPV
Sinus issues
Post nasal drip.
Long sighted in 1 eye, short sighted in the other.

Really sorry to hear it my brother, but i guess there are few auto immune disorders that you’ve mentioned.

Auto immune does come in a bundle, and stress related issues only elevate the same. Hence inflammation screws us. IBS, Asthma, epididymis is all inflammation.

I’m sorry in advance if you think why this guy is speaking, i know my body better. I just wanna help. If you can work on your stress and get anti inflammatory diet. Trust me it helped my sister in 3 months with inflammatory issues.
GodBless you & all of us.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Yes, but it’s less common now. I don’t think longing for Third World practices is really the way to go.

Dude...I am proud of ancestors who invented arrange marriages as a norm.

Getting in to love marriage is so easy in India that even girls from villages are getting married.

But problem is love marriage favours good looking people or those who do not have flaws.


There are self arrange matrimony websites like shaadi dot com,Jeevansathi dot come,bharat matrimony dot com where couples matching are falling in love even before they decide to engage.
This is why I told earlier that Arrange marriage now is like love marriage on rocket.


One friend of me got 100 marriage requests from girls.
He is good looking guy plus rich tall everything.

He got request from 100 girls...he didn't requested any of this 100.


About your third world practices statement,

tell me when you go on a Tinder date..do you even know abcd of a girl.


I have watched a video of one youtuber who met one girl in Japan on Tinder who was talking with disney dolls in her home that where kept with head chopped in a cupboard.
Scary as f***.

He left her home..fighting for saving his life.

 

[razzmatazz91]

you're right, better to get a hair transplant rather than have a woman being forced to marry a bald man

Those days are gone, yes the concept of arrange marriage still exists but with a clause that if the girl & boy after meeting would like to marry. So she won’t be forced to marry a baldie, its her wish.

It's bs anyways.... can you really... REALLY, be a happy man, knowing that your wife is with you because she is forced to/for money/for fear of society etc, while wanting other men?

Same with me severe baldness and a TON of health problems.
I honestly don't care if I say personal stuff online.

I got:
Aspergers syndrome.
Social anxiety.
Depression.
Panic attacks.
Asthma.
Allergies.
IBS
GERD/acid reflux
PTSD.
Dissoactive seizures(NON epileptic)
Chronic nerve pain issues in certain areas on my body/painful varicose veins.
Chronic epidyimitus
Right shoulder instability issue.
BPPV
Sinus issues
Post nasal drip.
Long sighted in 1 eye, short sighted in the other.

Honestly sorry to hear that.
all I can say is try not to be too hard on yourself.
The day I made this diary entry (in the OP), that's what I told myself.... if you're going through something like this, it isn't your fault. And you owe it to yourself to remind yourself of that fact from time to time.

 

[Saurabhaj]

This is a CBT(cognitive Behavioural Therapy) session of a bald guy..from psychiatry book.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

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This is a CBT(cognitive Behavioural Therapy) session of a bald guy..from psychiatry book.

That’s anecdotal. Do they really teach this sh*t? His cousin Pete would probably have an even more active dating life if he wasn’t a baldtie. f*** shrinks and their tricks.

 

[razzmatazz91]

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This is a CBT(cognitive Behavioural Therapy) session of a bald guy..from psychiatry book.

That just made me nauseous.

 

[Saurabhaj]

That’s anecdotal. Do they really teach this sh*t? His cousin Pete would probably have an even more active dating life if he wasn’t a baldtie. f*** shrinks and their tricks.

That's obvious.
Hair is better than bald.

But once balding starts,there is very little option to fight it.
There is no point in self loathing and wasting and destroying life.Doing this will harm the person only.

Even if some girl you like from bottom of your heart rejects you,it doesn't mean all girls will reject you.
There are few girls who do not mind of their bald husbands.

Surely they might not be as beautiful as the one you like..but still every person is unique and special in some kind of way.

This is where Therapist shakes belief of the client on baldness by talking about pete.


But one thing is sure..there are few women with bald guys...
You have to admit it.

Even if you find a single girl with mutual attraction between both of you..you will totally forget about your past of not getting success with women.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Same with me severe baldness and a TON of health problems.
I honestly don't care if I say personal stuff online.

I got:
Aspergers syndrome.
Social anxiety.
Depression.
Panic attacks.
Asthma.
Allergies.
IBS
GERD/acid reflux
PTSD.
Dissoactive seizures(NON epileptic)
Chronic nerve pain issues in certain areas on my body/painful varicose veins.
Chronic epidyimitus
Right shoulder instability issue.
BPPV
Sinus issues
Post nasal drip.
Long sighted in 1 eye, short sighted in the other.

This is the science behind INCELDOM.

Women don't want sex with the guy because this would be awful genetics to pass on to their potential offspring.

A lot of this cant be solved and its just brutal.

Some people are really born with all the cards stacked against them.