I dont know about you, but I do judge most people on personality and their actions. Never on looks to be honest.
I mean it's not ALL about mentality, but mentality does play a key role, wont you agree? I was always that shy, awkward kid in high school. Full head of hair but not confident at all. Pretty good looking too. Lots of girls thought i was cute, but women judged me by calling me a creep, because I pretty much was. I always had anxiety issues
IN college, I'm starting to go bald, shaved my head... pretty sure all my friends, family, everyone else knows. But I fixed up my "creepiness." I am now that type of dude who goes crazy, sings hella loud in the car, makes jokes, always got a smile on my face. Pretty much just happy and confident, and now I've got amazing friends! I had a handful of girls like me. In high school, I only talked to two girls. Hooked up with no one. Now in college I've hooked up a couple of times. By no means am I a player lol, but I would say confidence and personality is huge, especially for us baldies!