ive actually reached hte point where i actually drove 10 minutes tonight to see the place that i was planning on taking this girl to tomorrow for a first date to see what kind of lighting they had there. if the lighting was bad enough that i would look way bald then i was going to choose a different place. wow thats pathetic.
wow this is pathetic
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BodyDysmorphic
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their is nothing wrong with a little recon before a date
but if you like this girl she will most likely see you in less flattering light sooner than later
if she runs off due to your hair loss then she wasn't the one for you
not all women care about hair loss
your not pathetic
but if you like this girl she will most likely see you in less flattering light sooner than later
if she runs off due to your hair loss then she wasn't the one for you
not all women care about hair loss
your not pathetic
metropolis
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jimjohn said:
There's nothing pathetic about it but you shouldn't worry too much about that. All that women want in a man is a hard dick and a full wallet, they don't care about male pattern baldness.
Apparently, you and I have something in common: we both like to plan things in advance. That's great. The more I plan things (trips, dinners), the better they turn out to be. And I hate it, I just hate it when some fuc*** as*hole ruins my plans (e.g. latecomers).
Thinneritgoes!
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metropolis said:
That's not true at all. A lot of women care about male pattern baldness.
So many guys on here try to group every woman in the world in to one category and its pretty sad.
metropolis said:
Laughably false.
Does this sound true: "All men want is a blowjob and a sandwich. They don't care about your fat stomach."
Beyond that, I wouldn't ever repeat that theory in front of a woman. You're basically saying that women are stupid (a hard dick) w****s (a full wallet).
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You're not pathetic, but the situation your find yourself in is.
Woman can rap all they want about how looks aren't important and they are more concerned with how sensitive we are, but it's a load of b.s.
Sure, you can find the rare female who will accept you as you are, but that's not the norm.
Looks do matter, regardless of what anyone says. We guys are guilty of it, too. It's just human nature to seek out the things we are visually attracted to. That's why good looking guys can treat women like dirt and still keep them by their side while not so great looking dudes can be stellar in their treatment of women and still not get any attention from them. My wife is much younger than me, which by itself causes a certain amount of paranoia. I'm always wondering if she'll decide to leave me for someone younger, though she assures me that won't happen. Then I started really losing my hair. So now along with going to the gym every day and counting every calorie, I'm going nuts trying to fight baldness.
Woman can rap all they want about how looks aren't important and they are more concerned with how sensitive we are, but it's a load of b.s.
Sure, you can find the rare female who will accept you as you are, but that's not the norm.
Looks do matter, regardless of what anyone says. We guys are guilty of it, too. It's just human nature to seek out the things we are visually attracted to. That's why good looking guys can treat women like dirt and still keep them by their side while not so great looking dudes can be stellar in their treatment of women and still not get any attention from them. My wife is much younger than me, which by itself causes a certain amount of paranoia. I'm always wondering if she'll decide to leave me for someone younger, though she assures me that won't happen. Then I started really losing my hair. So now along with going to the gym every day and counting every calorie, I'm going nuts trying to fight baldness.
GNUist (formerly FC)
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BodyDysmorphic said:
There's a new invention, it's called a "period", "."
thetodd
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Well, people can ridicule me all they want. Sometimes the truth hurts, I guess. I've just learned to deal with life as it is instead of living in some fantasy world. It would be nice if looks didn't matter, but that's just wishful thinking.dudemon said:
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i don't think it's pathetic. you want to make a good first impression, arguably the first date is very important. once you get more comfortable the hair loss won't be such a factor, but if you can hide it in low lighting it's probably not as bad as you think anyway
thetodd
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One issue I have is that women do all kinds of things to enhance their appearance. High heels, make-up, girdles, wonder bras...
When it comes to their own hair, please.
They spend hours trying to make themselves look better than they really do. Why should we men feel bad about concealing our thinning hair?
When it comes to their own hair, please.
They spend hours trying to make themselves look better than they really do. Why should we men feel bad about concealing our thinning hair?
metropolis
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ClayShaw said:
I didn't say that. Women prefer rich men not because they're w****s or shallow but because they're smart and practical and want to find the best possible 'nest' for their future children.
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ClayShaw said:
Something we're failing to consider here is that 'rich men' or successful men will more than likely have much more going for them besides their money than poorer or less successful men.
After all any loser can be unsuccesful/poor but a guy who earns good money due to having brains and ambition and other benificial qualities is an all round winner.
Its not just a case of women choosing a rich man for his money alone.