I didn't tout by experience as scientific evidence, as I said, just my "two cents".
If you just want to go with FDA approved products, I'm sure that will work fine for you, but searching for clinical data on Azelaic acid would have taken all of 30 seconds and sort of negates your reason for asking the question on this forum if you're going to discount random individual experiences. FDA approved is a pretty short list, it's not that confusing.
That being said, yes, the actual clinical data on Azelaic acid is mixed (mostly against AA). Doing some searches, it's a pretty old topic on the forums. On one side you have Dr. Lee who doesn't give evidence but quotes his years of experience:
http://www.hairlosshelp.net/forums/...d=222754&parentid=0&FTVAR_FORUMVIEWTMP=Branch
And on the other side, you have (to a large part) Bryan quoting 4 studies showing it does very little to reduce sebum production, the ensuing the debate that neither does finasteride, and Bryan admitting (tongue-in-cheek perhaps) that it's just his gut feeling:
http://www.hairlosshelp.com/forums/messageview.cfm?catid=10&threadid=54996
http://www.hairlosstalk.com/interact/viewtopic.php?f=32&t=45020
http://www.hairlosshelp.com/forums/messageview.cfm?catid=10&threadid=54996
So you had some people saying it was blocking 98% of DHT, but I think most people have moved to a more realistic conclusion that it's a weak blocker at best. Despite being a popular ingredient for so long, there still aren't any clinical studies, only theories as to how it might work (which include theorized anti-fungal/bacterial properties, etc).
With regard to Grapefruit Seed Extract, I'm not using this to grow hair, it's only to (theoretically) provide a cleaner scalp (ant-yeast, anti-bacterial) which 'could' contribute to reduced inflammation (a theorized mechanism of how the hair root is destroyed). If you trust *individual experience*, you can wet two identical rags, one with plain tap water, one with tap water with some drops of GSE included. Wait a few days and see which one smells worse. ...Junk science perhaps, but easy to do.