What would you do?

js626

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Hello all - Very long time lurker, first time poster. So, here is my story...I'm in my mid 30's. I started losing hair in the crown area in my early 20's so I immediately went on Propecia and Rogaine. To make a long story short, I stopped taking both by the time I was 30 for different reasons (Rogaine liquid was messy, Propecia killed my sex drive). Fast forward 5 years of not using anything and my coverage in the crown area is probably down to 15%. For what it's worth, I went back on Rogaine foam, which seems to have at least halted the loss. The rest of my hair is very thick with a little bit of the front receding, but not much. This is good and bad. The good news is that you wouldn't think I was losing my hair if you didn't see the crown. The bad news is that the contrast between the crown and the rest of my hair is ridiculous.

I use concealers like Toppik daily, but it's getting harder to use them as I don't have much hair for the fibers to cling to anymore. If I take my time with concealers, I can cover it up to the point where you would never know. But eventually I'll have no hair there and that's my concern. My closest loved ones will think I went from having a thick head of hair to a giant bald spot over night. That's part of my motivation for shaving now while I still have some hair there. I'd also just not have to deal with all of this anymore. I'm thinking that once I adjust to not having hair, it'll be great. Just shower and get out of the house? That sounds wonderful. I know I rambled a bit. I'm just looking for any thoughts/advice. Hopefully someone has been in a similar situation. Thanks.
 

Notcoolanymore

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If you can just shave your head and move on that would be your best option. Most of the guys here aren't prepared to do that unfortunately, including myself. Have you considered experimental treatments such as RU? I do not use RU myself, but I am considering giving it a try. If you are getting tired of treatments then yes just start buzzing your hair shorter and shorter and see if you can live with it. If you can, you win.
 

js626

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My understanding is that RU is more for prevention rather than regrowth. Is that true? I think I can halt the loss with Rogaine. It's just exhausting concealing it every time I shower. It's a process and at times it doesn't look great. I'd love to eliminate the time commitment and stress from my life, but like you, I don't know if I can do it. I accept that I definitely will look better as I currently am, but the idea of not having to deal with the process is appealing.
 

js626

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Would you consider FUE?

Yes, I had a consultation with Dr. Dorin, which was a positive experience. My concern is the risk of needing multiple procedures over the years, which I don't want to be tied to. If I was single, I'm sure I'd do it. But considering my situation, I'd feel selfish spending that kind of money on the procedure instead of putting it in my daughter's college savings. If I one day have a lot more disposable income, that would change I suppose.
 
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