Hey mate,
Im 21. I live in Scotland as well, i study at Glasgow university.
I can empathise with everything you're saying as i have been there. I started to suffer hair loss at 16. I used to post on these boards alot when i was beginning to really feel the sting. Here is a photo from 2 years ago, i decided to shave my head during the first year of uni:
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Let me tell you something you wont hear very often on this forum; the truth.
The hair you have lost is not going to come back. Its gone. The reality is that as you and i are so young, that we will lose more. Of course you can listen to some posters here and go and spend a fortune of a huge cache of drugs (propeica, adovart) which have no real proven success rate, especially with young men with aggressive male pattern baldness. Let it also be known that when i was 18 i started using propecia; unbelievable to think i did in recollection. It done absolutely no good for me at all. I sufferred sexual sides, and i was so desperate for hair that i didnt stop using it for a good 6 months after realising; through practical experience.
I'm also on Rogaine and spironolactone. i've been on rogaine since i was 16. I went to see a trichologist. She gave me rogaine at 16, incredible. Easy money i suppose. As you probably know once you start rogaine you cant stop or the rate of loss on the area of use will increase exponentially. Rogaine and spironolactone may at the very best have slowed down my hairloss but i cant be sure. I am sure that it is still falling out. I would advise you not to bother.
So then; do you ask yourself what are you going to do? do you feel a huge overwhelming sense of despair, as if God himself has reached from the heavens and stolen your very identity? I know i did and to be on some days i still do.
But there is one important thing that i've learned and its the only thing that matters. We're only here for so long. Nobody owes you anything; we are 9 billion on this planet. Your hairloss problem could not be any more irrelevant. Think about the bigger picture. What kind of man do you want to be? Do you want to be a sniviling, self-obsessed picture of vanity? Of course not. Live your life the way you would have done. Your hair makes no difference!!!! it does not define you!!!! Get out there, experiment, experience. Live it!!!!
Dont waste your time on these forums!!! The only thing stopping you getting what you want is your attitude not your hair.