What Is It That Makes Us Fall In Love With Someone?

[Calchas]

I just saw Kim Jong Un's sister arriving in South korea and i was stunned by how strangely and incredibly hot she is.
There's just something in her eyes that could make me fall for her in an instant.
She seems shy and awkward,which is such a turn-on...or perhaps,maybe she's just evil,which is also hot.

All this made me wonder what is it actually that we fall in love with in someone.
It's definetely not exclusively the looks...I have met 9s who stunned me at first glance,but after spending 10 minutes with them,i found myself completely losing interest in them and their attractiveness fading.

I suppose it's intuition that tells us that a certain person is the right one for us,but i feel there's more than that.
Hmmm.........

 

[resu]

Conformity and feeling that you have a chance of being with that person, as in you think that you're not out of her league and that she would see value in you and not give you the boot and replace you with someone better.

This is why a lot of guys like women with visible flaws because they think they aren't attractive to everyone so they won't lose that person to someone better than themselves.

 

[Alphalete]

All this made me wonder what is it actually that we fall in love with in someone.
It's definetely not exclusively the looks...I have met 9s who stunned me at first glance,but after spending 10 minutes with them,i found myself completely losing interest in them and their attractiveness fading.

You're def. correct. I've seen legit 10s and they are incredibly beautiful, but after talking to them for a few minutes, their lack of personality or whatever turns you off (unless you're just looking to smash).

 

[Calchas]

I finally found it...It's tranquility,more than anything else...I'm so tormented in every minute of my life,that i need a face that tranquilizes me.
A face to reassure me,that in a world reigned by cynicism,banality and deconstruction,there's somewhere a source of true feelings.
That's why i always preferred cuties than b****s.
Epiphany!

 

[josephsan01]

man she ugly wtf u talking about