There are two types of hot women. Ones who seek attention anyway they can and ones who are strong enough to not feel the need to be attention-w****s.
The difference is that the attention comes easily to the really hots ones, they
have never had to seek it so they are just normal people. A lot of young girls
are like this because they have not gotten comfortable with there beauty yet
so they go overboard. My daughter was a total attention wh*** until she
realized she did not need to be, the boys would be interested regardless.
in reality those girls are only for f****ing and not for a long term relationship.
I would get jealous if I saw other guys checking her out.
loves me for being me not just f****ing me for my money
but not dateable since they are bound to cheat on you or just make your life a living hell by flirting so much just to get a rise out of you.
All these sound like excuses to me and I would have to disagree with all these
things having been there. And I also think if these things are problems then
you might be doing it wrong.
I'm sure there are a share of hot girls that are not long-term material but just
like there are not-as-hot girls that you could not be with long term there
are hot women that make great long term partners. I've been married to one
that most would consider to be hot for a long time and no she is not as hot as
she once was but she still turns heads when she enters a room. And I can tell
you from a self-esteem point of view there is nothing better then to walk into
some place with your wife and have all the guys stop what their are doing to
check her out. I don't know how hot women stand being stared at like that, it
would drive me crazy, she seems to thrive on it and I'm sure it has something
to do with the attention. But I know it's been like that for her since she was
about 16. It does not make her a bad person for a long-term relationship,
likely to cheat or any of that crap.
I don't think anyone would consider me in the same league as my wife but
when we met I treated her like I would any girl. I was a "bad boy" back
then(still am, just mellowed, aged and PC) and really didn't give a F**k how
she was used to being treated. The fact that I was nice to her but did not
put her on a pedestal established her respect and gave me equal footing. We
have talked about this many times and she has told me that
women are never interested in the "nice guys" or the guys that treat them like
a princess. They want to be taken care of and to some extent dominated by
their man. I just treated her like any other girl I had dated, which was with
respect , but I took the lead, I was comfortable and tried to make her laugh
every chance I got. But I never once put her in front of me when we were
dating. If I did not like something, I told her. There is an old saying, I think
maybe Donald Trump said it, not sure, you have to be willing to walk away
from the deal. There is no better advise for dealing with a hot woman, have
the attitude that your willing to walk away. Don't be the stary eyed loser
that's thankful she is even talking to you. She gets that ALL the f*****g
time. Be the guy she remembers because your not like that. I see too many
guys that try to be a doormat, the nice guy, the best friend, etc and that just
is not going to cut it with the hot ones. I guarantee that hot girls are so used to
guys wetting themselves when they talk to them that when a guy acts like they
could not care if they took their next breath, that will get their attention big
time because you will stand out.
I should write a book about this crap... bottom line is, you're doing it wrong
if you're not getting your share of hot women and I don't care what you look
like or how much hair you have. In general that is far down on the list for
most women.
