- every animal has his mating preferences in a way that guarantee the survival of the species.
- in order to have healthy children men are selected to be attracted to certain traits that indicates high estrogen that screams fertility and health.
- they are not attracted to ugly (unhealthy) women because this would be a waste of ressources and time that should've been spend on a beautiful heathy woman.
- Men are programmed to get really attached to a female, at least untill she can no longer give birth.
- this attachment has been selected naturally to protect and provide for the female when she is the most vunerable (pregnant).
- humans call this attachment "love", and it's real when men do it, because there is a natural selection necessity to love a woman.
- women on the other hand, despite beign attracted to the physical traits that indicates health, they are obligated to not get attached to the current man who's with her, because another man with more ressources can guarantee a smoother pregnancy and more ressources for the child and her.
so what do you get at the end ? you'll get romantic men that write pomes and worship the body of young fertile women and get really attached to her (love her), and on the other hand you get gold digging w****s that marry the wealthy and cheat with the attractive to have his baby.
this is the optimal way to the survaival of the human tribes, and the tribes who approach this kind of model are the most successful with the most healthy attractive offspring. it's by definition, this is science, when you can predict the behavior of something it means you understood it.
we can predict male and female behavior based on what would be optimal to the tribe.
about men and wealthy women, it can happen, but in this case the man does not really love her, he loves her money.
but most men are disgusted by ugly rich women. women are not disgusted by ugly rich men, and this is my problem with them. it wasn't their choice really when we were in the jungle, but women who know this now and still marry ugly rich men are really evil and should be ashamed of themselvs.
this is why i respect some feminists now more than traditional women,
feminism is women saying enough average guys for us we have ressources now (from the state), we should now get impregnated with only the top 10% of men.
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