The difinitive verdict on women?

sjb36

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What does everyone here reckon the deal is here with women and hair loss?

I know some people reckon that it doesn't matter and others say get real etc. My take is that it will matter to s certain type of girl - woman and that largely speaking a woman looking for a proper relationship is more interested in chemistry/ security / fun. Yes all women are bound to have some criteria in the looks department in as much as they are less likely to go for a fat balding guy who obviously doesn't take any care over his appearence. But if somebody is relatively confident, a decent guy, who is in reasonable nick i.e. doesn't down ten pints and two pies every night and has a healthy outlook on life then this type of man is likely to not have too many problems attracting a woman.

What I think will happen, depending on the stage and age people are at, is that the type of woman they went for before, which may or may not have included younger more bimboesque types, will probably find balding guys less of a turn on. Frankly these types of women are usually quite emotionally stunted who are unlikley to really know in too much detail they're own minds, which may or may not also be the case of the generally younger guys that want to knob them. This is not to say that some women who d o know they're own minds will not find balding guys unattractive because there almost certainly will be those as well. But everybody has to accept that you cannot attract every women that on the outside you are attracted to . If they do not find us attractive then the relationship isn't right for anyone concerned.

It all depends on outlook I reckon. If you are going to chase then be set for rejection as this will happen, even to people like - ahh scream - ROBBIE ( although less often than many I would think )
If you want a relationship and not a quick screw then as long as you're in decent nick and are relatively independent you won't have many problems.

What do people here think on this whole minefield?
 

20sometingtoo

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Its like asking "do black people really like fried chicken?"

Some do, some dont.
Some women dont mind a bald head, some do.
Some guys dont like big breasts, some do.

There will never be a definitive verdict.
 

Melbs

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I dont think we should be in too much denial here. We are all doing something about our hairloss because it DOES matter. Unfortunately the bottom line is i think most girls would definately be more attracted to a guy with more hair. I hate to say it, but its true. No question though that you can outweigh the balding by just being a great guy. If your hung up on your hair you'll get nowhere. The times i have been the most succesfull with the ladies has always been where thay have got to know me after a few hours of talking and laughing... by that stage they aren't interested if your hailine is thinner than bobs over in the corner.

Make of it what you will, but dont let it get you down... just accept that more hair is better, but not the end of the world... you are still attractive to many women out there who arent necessarily as shallow as those who base a relationship on how thick your hair is. So f*** those ones off anyway...
 

global

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I agree with Melbs, we shouldn't be in denial about this. As I've said before having male pattern baldness is NEVER an advantage with women but is not the be all and end all.

Some women will never see past it, some will see past it if you have other great qualities, and some will see past just by getting to know you better.

If you want to better understand what women are attracted by then look at this site which explains "ladder theory" -

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
 
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