By sayings it all about looks..You refuse the testomony of any guys who have succeded despite baldness and or average looks.
True confidence has nothing to do with looks.
What do you want to get great at? If its picking up woman, you can be great at it. But that would mean you couldn't be medicore. You'd have to overcome all your failure pattern, belief systems, years of habits... you'd have to become a true warrier, not a helpless victim.
Nobody who is great at anything is a victim. I've seen guys work at Pick up. It may take them a year of constant rejections until they break through. Getting up again and again after each failure... still trying, still learning, keeping open...
From what i can see here, most people have made up their mind. They have lost before they even started, and have conviced themselfs they actually know.
Theres a cool book called 'The Art of Learning' by Josh Waitzkin. He was a champion chess player and martial artist. If you want to know what kind of attitude it takes to become great, read it. Even if you don't become the romeo you think you are, you will have a great life and maybe inspire somebody.
Last post from me, just throught id share my experiences.