truking10 said:
Please tell me what i should do, or take PLease help !!! Im at the point where i just wanna shave my head start taking meds, and see what happens without constantly obsessing! please reply
Read steps 1,2,3,4 on this link...
http://www.hairlosstalk.com/research/men/index.htm
The best proven treatments are all on this link...
http://www.hairlosstalk.com/research/men/step4men.htm
You should probably spend some time learning about possible side effects of finasteride, if you are considering it.
In general you need to block production of DHT... the easiest/most convenient and studied way is finasteride. You can get finasteride 5mg and cut them in 1/4 to save on cost, taking one each day (read about and understand possible side effects before buying)... You can get it online at
http://www.unitedpharmacies.com/ or thru your physician. If you dont want to go with a pill some people have tried to block DHT with topical spironolactone, azelaic acid, and other meds but they arent nearly as convenient or proven. Others dont address DHT first and skip to minoxidil, addressing DHT later.
Inflammation is another issue. Most people here use nizoral 2% shampoo three times a week for its anti-inflammatory and anti-androgen properties. 1% is over the counter. 2% is online or with Rx.
You might give the above treatments 6-12 months then reasses and consider adding a growth stimulator... The most proven one is minoxidil (rogaine) which is over the counter and needs to be used twice a day for proven results, forever, or benefit is lost. It is greasy but easily available. Dr. Lee's has more tollerable but less affordable minoxidil formulations online if you want to try this (I like them)
http://www.minoxidil.com . Another stimulator (less proven) is tricomin which is a cool blue tingley spray.
Do some research and start something and reassess in 6-12 months.
Regarding obsession and emotional problems cutting your hair shorter may help take your mind off it, and starting some treatment may help also. But, if you have a lot of issues, seeing your doctor is reasonable, for evaluation and possible referral or treatment. That might help your level of stress, overall health and (not incidentally) hair. Hair loss can be upsetting, but it is not a disease or illness to the extent that it will not kill you.