luis_scofield
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I was thinking this the other day. How guys that choose to shave their head and "embrace" their baldness and often bash men who seek treatment are as insecure as guys who want to save or improve their hair.
Why? If they were so confident they wont even need to shave their head. Let me explain. Where i work there are men of many age range and so many stages of hair loss. There are two guys who look late 20s or early 30s. One of them is like norwood 3 with thinning crown. Looks decent unless he is under light. The other is norwood 4 with almost no hair on top. They are both young men with visible hair loss and aparently seem to not care, aswell as people around them. They dont shave their head and nobody ever say something about their hair.
My point is that if they would care they would either shave it or seek for treatment or a transplant. But they seem not to care or perhaps they dont know about what they can do. But guys who shave, obviously do it because thy care how they look. Because once it gets bad, hair loss can make you look old or wierd, and a shaved head looks cleaner, or at least better than a norwood 4 and so. Perhaps they failed with treatment, they didnt had money, they didnt knew or whatever reason they choosed not to do anything about it, once they realized they didnt look good the only option was to shave the remains.
Many guys who shave are not even bald, some are norwood 3 or 4 or even 2 , because nowadays it seems that if you have minor to mild hair loss you should shave your head like if was something to be ashamed about. Like yeah, so once women start to get wrinkles should they just hide their face? That would be insane, same with hair. Hair loss is nature and not our fault.
So back to my point, if shaved heads were so confident, they wouldnt shave, they would left what remain and try to look their best, or not do absolutely anything about. An example would be Heath Ledger, he had some hair loss but he still looked good because he appeared confident and used what he had to favour his facial features. Now that is confidence. If they shave like i said is because they worry about their looks, about how women will percieve if they look like balding men instead of bald men. Another example is Sean Connery, he used to hide it and now he embraces it and he doesnt have to shave his head, he has a classic norwood 6 hair and looks good for a man his age, honestly he would looks worse full shaved.
At least guys who use minoxidil or finasteride admit to be insecure about hair loss. In my case, even if im norwood 2 at worst (almost 26) having hair loss makes me feel old and i dont like that feeling so i rather do something about it, even if some people tell me i would look good shaved i dont care, i m not ready to let go of my hair, perhaps if i was older then maybe. So yeah hair loss makes me insecure so i choosed the big 3. Guys who shave and act tought and badass, and think of themselves as superior as guys who use treatment are as insecure, because they care about how they look too, id they wouldnt, they wouldnt shave their head entiretly like many men do.
Why? If they were so confident they wont even need to shave their head. Let me explain. Where i work there are men of many age range and so many stages of hair loss. There are two guys who look late 20s or early 30s. One of them is like norwood 3 with thinning crown. Looks decent unless he is under light. The other is norwood 4 with almost no hair on top. They are both young men with visible hair loss and aparently seem to not care, aswell as people around them. They dont shave their head and nobody ever say something about their hair.
My point is that if they would care they would either shave it or seek for treatment or a transplant. But they seem not to care or perhaps they dont know about what they can do. But guys who shave, obviously do it because thy care how they look. Because once it gets bad, hair loss can make you look old or wierd, and a shaved head looks cleaner, or at least better than a norwood 4 and so. Perhaps they failed with treatment, they didnt had money, they didnt knew or whatever reason they choosed not to do anything about it, once they realized they didnt look good the only option was to shave the remains.
Many guys who shave are not even bald, some are norwood 3 or 4 or even 2 , because nowadays it seems that if you have minor to mild hair loss you should shave your head like if was something to be ashamed about. Like yeah, so once women start to get wrinkles should they just hide their face? That would be insane, same with hair. Hair loss is nature and not our fault.
So back to my point, if shaved heads were so confident, they wouldnt shave, they would left what remain and try to look their best, or not do absolutely anything about. An example would be Heath Ledger, he had some hair loss but he still looked good because he appeared confident and used what he had to favour his facial features. Now that is confidence. If they shave like i said is because they worry about their looks, about how women will percieve if they look like balding men instead of bald men. Another example is Sean Connery, he used to hide it and now he embraces it and he doesnt have to shave his head, he has a classic norwood 6 hair and looks good for a man his age, honestly he would looks worse full shaved.
At least guys who use minoxidil or finasteride admit to be insecure about hair loss. In my case, even if im norwood 2 at worst (almost 26) having hair loss makes me feel old and i dont like that feeling so i rather do something about it, even if some people tell me i would look good shaved i dont care, i m not ready to let go of my hair, perhaps if i was older then maybe. So yeah hair loss makes me insecure so i choosed the big 3. Guys who shave and act tought and badass, and think of themselves as superior as guys who use treatment are as insecure, because they care about how they look too, id they wouldnt, they wouldnt shave their head entiretly like many men do.
