sh*t, im depressed. dont know what to do.
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you have three options:
1. hold on there as there are ups and downs.
2. try to improve yourself your life. Get a degree. get on with your baldness and have confident.
3. or the easiest option shoot yourself in the head. you wont feel it. less than a second you will be in helll
1. hold on there as there are ups and downs.
2. try to improve yourself your life. Get a degree. get on with your baldness and have confident.
3. or the easiest option shoot yourself in the head. you wont feel it. less than a second you will be in helll
Aplunk1
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Stop.
Relax and take a deep breath.
You're having anxiety and you need to stop right now and regroup yourself.
Now, explain to us what the problem is.
Write down your problem, and tell us what's bothering you.
I hope that this little exercise can start helping you.
Relax and take a deep breath.
You're having anxiety and you need to stop right now and regroup yourself.
Now, explain to us what the problem is.
Write down your problem, and tell us what's bothering you.
I hope that this little exercise can start helping you.
ronaldkia
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lol just kidding. No, altought it affects me, it is not really a huge reason why im depressed. ive been depressed before all this balding stuff. How does getting a degree will help me get off depression? Yah i feel like i have no goals, i have trouble concentrating at school, so i dropped out of college a few years ago. Plus i never had a gf, which i longed for since high school i guess. And yah ive been on 5 different mental meds. im not gonna do them again.
this is your solution...
just apply the stuff on your scalp twice a day and you will feel good
http://www.supercheaprx.com/Dihydrotest ... =aromatase
just apply the stuff on your scalp twice a day and you will feel good
http://www.supercheaprx.com/Dihydrotest ... =aromatase
blueshard
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Nothing has ever made me feel better about losing hair.
I have found no acceptance. No "moving on and trying to improve my appearance in other ways," when I feel bad about my hair the only thing on my mind is blowing off my f*****g head.
It is just how it is for me.
I do not think that I have ever come across someone who is bald and has truely accepted it. They all wish that they had hair and feel somewhat ashamed and embarassed because they have lost some.
I have found no acceptance. No "moving on and trying to improve my appearance in other ways," when I feel bad about my hair the only thing on my mind is blowing off my f*****g head.
It is just how it is for me.
I do not think that I have ever come across someone who is bald and has truely accepted it. They all wish that they had hair and feel somewhat ashamed and embarassed because they have lost some.
MPBWarrior
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ceee,
where's your finasteride?
where's your finasteride?
MPBWarrior
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ceee said:
LOL! r u afraid of the sides? if u havent tried it yet, i highly recommend u start taking it. its by far the best thing we have for male pattern baldness (together with dutasteride but that's more dangerous).
MPBWarrior said:
I know, I'm seeing a derm in two weeks to talk about it. Truthfully though, I'm not willing to risk any sort of side effect like impotence or manbreasts, even at a supposed 1 out of 50 chance.
Plus, I already shaved off all my hair, and I'm not really missing it.
ronaldkia, i thought you were hard at work rewriting all of our medical books and proving that hair loss is caused by jerking off, or thinking too much, or being shy, or having short limbs, or not being funny, or by facial oils, or having a competitive career, or walking out of synch, or everything else under the sun.
I mean seriously, i was positive you were well on your way to becoming a doctor.
maybe if u acted ur age and got your career going whether that means going back to school or getting a good job, you could put your focus somewhere positive instead of making 10 polls a day at 25 years old like you used to.
I mean seriously, i was positive you were well on your way to becoming a doctor.
maybe if u acted ur age and got your career going whether that means going back to school or getting a good job, you could put your focus somewhere positive instead of making 10 polls a day at 25 years old like you used to.
Aplunk1
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ronaldkia said:
I see...
So, you admit to being depressed even before hairloss?
Thank you for sharing that with us.
Now, do you think it would be in your best interest to talk to a doctor and get help. It's really hard to admit your shortcomings at first, but you will start to become a stronger person with a brighter life.
I've been there myself, Ronaldkia. I was only 19 when I had a baldspot. I dropped out of college, TWICE, and am finally striving to finish my credits.
A degree is something you can focus on when you're ready. But first, I really think you should treat your depression, whether that be through therapy, anti-depressants/anti-anxiety, meditation, philosophy... or whatever. Depression, my friend, is treatable and curable.
I think when it comes down to it, you're writing this post because you want to change.
Why not try to?
I know how frustrating it is to not have a girlfriend at this point in your life, but you're young! You can still go get 'em.
I hope that this isn't coming down on you too fast.
s.a.f
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It's easy to say change your life but I'm sure the thing he wants to change most is his hair. I think its fair to say that hairloss is harder to accept for young single guys. For me I have no interest in getting more education or improving my career those things just dont interest me.
Also I dont think that there's anything that a doctor could give me that would help me out. finasteride is more than enough medication for me. I think there's a lot of young guys on here (like Ronaldkia) who's lives are stuck in a rut.
Also I dont think that there's anything that a doctor could give me that would help me out. finasteride is more than enough medication for me. I think there's a lot of young guys on here (like Ronaldkia) who's lives are stuck in a rut.
michael barry
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Ronaldkia,
Let me make a suggestion. Hear me out. Baldness is profoundly troubling you I can tell. Until cloning comes out (which I think will be about five years), you might buy a bottle of folligen and Pickart's emu oil fortified with saw pametto. Use both every day to help cut DHT transcription and remodel the scalp skin, making the scalp in the best condition possible for when HM is here. Keep your head buzzed or shaved in the mean time, while working on a graduate degree or starting a business, or working some extra hours, getting in super shape, or all of the above. Give yourself some personal goals. Women LOVE a man with a purpose.
Let me make a suggestion. Hear me out. Baldness is profoundly troubling you I can tell. Until cloning comes out (which I think will be about five years), you might buy a bottle of folligen and Pickart's emu oil fortified with saw pametto. Use both every day to help cut DHT transcription and remodel the scalp skin, making the scalp in the best condition possible for when HM is here. Keep your head buzzed or shaved in the mean time, while working on a graduate degree or starting a business, or working some extra hours, getting in super shape, or all of the above. Give yourself some personal goals. Women LOVE a man with a purpose.
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michael barry said:
All of what Michael barry said was good, but that last part is the most important for a lot of guys on here. Don't let hairloss control you.