The most important thing is to STICK WITH YOUR TREATMENTS for a year before concluding anything. Take photos each month. I have the same general loss as you and it took at least a year before my hair stabilized. You are young so just stick with the Big 3 for a few years and add in other products later.
As for hair style, eventually your hairloss will continue to progress no matter how many drugs you take, so change the hairstyle now before you are forced to change it later. This will make the transition easier. Your current look only makes your male pattern baldness look worse then it actually is and there is nothing emo about laying your hair flat as IMO your current hairstyle is more emo then the flat look so i am confused. I know it sucks but you have to accept your hairloss and make some changes. It is well known on this board that the best look for those with male pattern baldness is either the whiffle (shaved) or the Ceasar look....period!
I use Vive for men thickening shampoo and it works well for me.
Good luck.
