Need Urgent Help , Hair Loss Ruining My Life

[Feelsbadman]

Guys please help i'm in a crisis.
Due to hair loss i have become very lonely (In terms of women)
Literally no women are currently interested in me at the moment.
As a result i have turned to prostitutes.
i don't earn much but i blow all my money on hookers.
this is becoming an addiction.

The worst thing is , is the effect this addiction is having on my work performance
i come to work unmotivated, tired, out of energy and with poor concentration.
I know that this is definitely because of the fact i have had sex with prostitutes the night before going to work.
what should i do?
how can i stop?


TLDR'
HAIR LOSS = LONILESS = PROSTITUES = BRAIN FOG = POOR WORK = ADDICTED = BLOWING MONEY
= WANT TO DIE

 

[Roberto_72]

how can i stop?

You need professional help, not a forum’s.
Start here:

https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/overcoming-addiction

 

[blackg]

If you could somehow find some motivation at work and maybe even find a secondary source of income then I think you will be okay.

Having sex with prostitutes is nothing to feel ashamed and unmotivated about.
In fact your nocturnal activities sound a lot more exciting than just standard casual sex, which can leave you feeling unfulfilled and lonely, especially after you've been asked to leave so that the lady can get a good nights sleep.

 

[swingline747]

stop seeing them so late, beat off more.

 

[blackg]

stop seeing them so late, beat off more.

Yeah and he may save money too, but... beating off with your own hand is hardly any match for a real woman touching you.

 

[Marky]

Guys please help i'm in a crisis.
Due to hair loss i have become very lonely (In terms of women)
Literally no women are currently interested in me at the moment.
As a result i have turned to prostitutes.
i don't earn much but i blow all my money on hookers.
this is becoming an addiction.

The worst thing is , is the effect this addiction is having on my work performance
i come to work unmotivated, tired, out of energy and with poor concentration.
I know that this is definitely because of the fact i have had sex with prostitutes the night before going to work.
what should i do?
how can i stop?


TLDR'
HAIR LOSS = LONILESS = PROSTITUES = BRAIN FOG = POOR WORK = ADDICTED = BLOWING MONEY
= WANT TO DIE

Who said you have to be having sex, why not save the money and take a trip to the Bahamas and enjoy some of the beauties
of the world.

 

[doubleindemnity]

I think that the only advice we can give is that you should accept your situation and be at peace with it. That means, that you should accept that you'll never have a girlfriend, accept that you must focus on things besides women, and then try to be happy with yourself that way. There's simply no other way. You simply won't have women interested in you when you have aggressive hair loss, so the only chance to deal with the problem is to accept that and sort of forgive yourself. This is easier said than done; most people on the forum are struggling right here.

Hopefully, once you approach prostitutes with this mind set, you'll just see it as money paid for a certain service and budget for it accordingly, rather than blowing all of your money and being addicted.

 

[blackg]

OMG, you're still advocating this sort of lifestyle? It's not conducive to the quality of life. No way in hell you can convince someone buying attention is perfectly fine; particularly in a repetitive way. Lol

What's this quality of life you speak of?
And who's idea is it?

The fantasy of a "normal" relationship with a "normal" girl somehow being our saviour doesn't always suit every individual.

 

[blackg]

Find the root cause of your issue(hairloss) address it with drastic change(buzzing it), then step out on the club scene. That way you're not committing to one girl; single lifestyle.

Not some p*rn driven, motel 6 lifestyle that burns your wallet.

It seems like you're pouting because you cant have things the way you see them in your head, so you compensate with self destructive behaviors.

Hit the damn gym, upgrade your fashion sense! Go change for the better.

Once this guy spends a few weekends out clubbing then he will yearn for the safety of his old lifestyle and the reliability and comfort it provided.

 

[swingline747]

just taper down, do the escort thing less, and maybe try to go out publicly and meet some girls. Try some online sites, maybe make a little bit of personal changes to yourself if you can, blah blah blah. I mean seriously how much are you spending? Why not use this experience towards meeting actual free range women. Im sure you have built some comfort level with yourself, females and your bodies in this time.

Who said you have to be having sex, why not save the money and take a trip to the Bahamas and enjoy some of the beauties
of the world.

or take a trip to the Dominican and he can have the best of both worlds!

 

[doubleindemnity]

That's back of the hand advice man. Maybe you're projecting your take of women on to him. What if his head fits buzzed look more than yours does? What if you don't need a slew of women to find you attractive, but only one?

I've sent my photos to users on here and they say that my features are perfect for the buzzed look. It hasn't helped me one bit, whether I keep a beard or not. Suiting the buzzed look or looking good bald won't help you. It's being bald that destroys everything; it's a complete attraction killer. The last question from you is a truism. But where do you find such a woman? No woman who I considered my type and who considered me her type on paper ever wanted anything serious with me. If such a woman is out there, you won't find her in Western countries; I'm sure of that. But that brings us to another solution. He could go for prostitutes in other countries, where it is cheaper, and restrict his prostitution usage to vacations.

 

[Cowboys fan]

stop seeing them so late, beat off more.

Telling a kid to fap . That's great advice

 

[Guzam]

Guys please help i'm in a crisis.
Due to hair loss i have become very lonely (In terms of women)
Literally no women are currently interested in me at the moment.
As a result i have turned to prostitutes.
i don't earn much but i blow all my money on hookers.
this is becoming an addiction.

The worst thing is , is the effect this addiction is having on my work performance
i come to work unmotivated, tired, out of energy and with poor concentration.
I know that this is definitely because of the fact i have had sex with prostitutes the night before going to work.
what should i do?
how can i stop?


TLDR'
HAIR LOSS = LONILESS = PROSTITUES = BRAIN FOG = POOR WORK = ADDICTED = BLOWING MONEY
= WANT TO DIE

BS boy, your poor working performance is entirely due to hair loss related depression. Another day, another brother walks in the abyss because of hair loss. When will this stop? I’m tired of seeing this happen.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Use w****s as a port a potty, it raises my spirits every time.

 

[pjhair]

Guys please help i'm in a crisis.
Due to hair loss i have become very lonely (In terms of women)
Literally no women are currently interested in me at the moment.
As a result i have turned to prostitutes.
i don't earn much but i blow all my money on hookers.
this is becoming an addiction.

The worst thing is , is the effect this addiction is having on my work performance
i come to work unmotivated, tired, out of energy and with poor concentration.
I know that this is definitely because of the fact i have had sex with prostitutes the night before going to work.
what should i do?
how can i stop?


TLDR'
HAIR LOSS = LONILESS = PROSTITUES = BRAIN FOG = POOR WORK = ADDICTED = BLOWING MONEY
= WANT TO DIE

I am not sure where you live but if you are in the US, I strongly recommend avoiding prostitutes. There is a real risk of police sting, mugging and std's including HIV (condoms are not 100% safe). You think your life sucks now? Wait till you see your face plastered all over the news and internet after getting caught in a sting. Your overall risk of getting caught goes up over time. If you want to continue this habit then I strongly recommend moving to a country where prostitution is legal and regulated.

Plenty of single men get by without needing to resort to prostitutes. You may just have a higher sex drive than those people and lower impulse control. Just follow Roberto's recommendation of seeking professional help for your addiction.

 

[blackg]

BS boy, your poor working performance is entirely due to hair loss related depression. Another day, another brother walks in the abyss because of hair loss. When will this stop? I’m tired of seeing this happen.

I may agree with you on this. If this guy was happy with his appearance than I could imagine the extra energy and enthusiasm he would have at work.

Him seeing prostitutes is a trivial issue compared to the soul destroying issue of hating your very own appearance and the unwanted identity hair loss bestows on you.

 

[Cue Bald]

what norwood are you dude? ever considered saving the money instead of spending it on hookers, and saving for a hair transplant?

 

[genetically_cursed]

That me dude, my male pattern baldness might be minor, but I lost my job because of it. Didn't make it to work on time due to constantly checking my hair, luckily I have a new one.

daily reminder that this kid is like 19, norwood 1 and isnt even balding

 

[jasonstatham]

what norwood are you dude? ever considered saving the money instead of spending it on hookers, and saving for a hair transplant?

People are just stupid. The same thing goes to Norwood 3+ that go to Clubs week by week and after home alone jerking off to hentai. Better save the money to get a hair transplant.