Need A Little Bit Of Help Im So Desperate

bogibogi

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Hello, after struggling for a while I finally decided to join the forums and ask for some help.

Basically, I have problems with my hair for a very long time, since like 15 or even earlier, and right now I am 29.
I always had a high forehead which bothered me my whole life. Through my school and middle school I was sooo insecure that the words cant even describe that. Every time I was talking to any girl I was just assuming if she looks at my head she will be auto turned off, that is my biggest insecurity for my whole life.

It has been the same through the middle school. I couldnt look people in the eyes when talking to them because they could straight up see my high forehead and thinning hair and I always kept my head low and this is still a huge problem for me now. Like when I wash my hair they are good looking and all but when I see myself at a certain light angle they are just sooo thin, I can see half of my head through and this is really killing me.

I just look people (everywhere, at work, on tv, on internet) at their forehead and hair and just think about that. And it seems like everyone has it better then I do. I have very bright skin color and brown hair and this makes it so much more obvious then, also my head is pretty round so it looks so much worse. Basically I am depressed because of that for my whole life. I am very well off in pretty much every other area of life like finances, health, time and pretty much a lot more. It is just this that is killing me inside EVERY DAY and I just cant go like that anymore.

And it is everywhere. When I go to the bathroom I just look at my forehead hair line, when I see my reflection in cars I just check hair, when I see myself pretty much anywhere this is all I look at and wish it was better.

I cant stress this enough how much this is killing me, I think it is the only thing holding me back from being really happy.

So I came here to ask for some possible solutions, there must be something right? I am looking for something permanent if possible. Few days ago I just found a men hair wigs and watched a few vidos of those and that looks really amazing because the plastic thing is pretty much invisible and it looks reaaaly good. But then I was researching a little more and noticed that it can be taken off very easily and you cant really be that active with that. And that is something I dont really want. I want something to be there permanent and I can do whatever I want. If I could get that permanently stick to me I would.

So yes, I know this is a little long but I just wanted to get this out, because I feel bad 90% of the time just because of that.

Thanks :)
 

Jack Burt

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Do you have any pictures? Has it been getting worse these last years? Shaving it and accepting it is an option. A hair transplant to lower the forehead is another option, especially if you don’t have aggressive hair loss and you only have a large forehead with some thinning. Since you said that you are well off financially it might be worth looking into it. To thicken up your existing hair you can use minoxidil, I recommend foam. But to know what you are working with, pictures would be helpful.
 
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