my brother doesnt want to take treaments

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he told me yesterday that he was balding. well i knew he got temples but i didnt know they were growing.

so he is balding.

i told him about treatments but he doesnt want take any health risks (finasteride) and only wants to spend 5-10 $ per months in it.

he doesnt seem to care much if he gets bald or not.

its up to him, i dont want to tell him anything.

just wanted to share...
 

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neo1234 said:
he told me yesterday that he was balding. well i knew he got temples but i didnt know they were growing.

so he is balding.

i told him about treatments but he doesnt want take any health risks (finasteride) and only wants to spend 5-10 $ per months in it.

he doesnt seem to care much if he gets bald or not.

its up to him, i dont want to tell him anything.

just wanted to share...

my 18yo brother is balding as well and it doesn't bother him...he doesn't even want to get on propecia.

I wish i had his mindset...im too vain, i guess...o well.
 

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Your brothers are smart young men. It's not too hard to realize those drugs that cause harmful side effects is not worth the $$ and damage when eventually it will just fall out anyway.

Vainity, is a big problem for young guys. You don't want to lose those youthful looks and you go into denial about your aging process. Only when you accept your baldness can you heal your mind and go on with life. On the other hand you have the people that try every snake oil around and end up wearing toupee's or getting disfiguring transplants, which in the end makes them miserable and depressed as ever and stuck living a lie and not being able to enjoy the simple things in life such as the wind,rain and water.
 
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\Only when you accept your baldness can you heal your mind and go on with life. \

You forgot to mention that you can then also ask women to rub ranch dressing on your horseshoe.
 

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what is this a soap opera? wind rain earth? what are you talking about how do you enjoy it you mean eat a handful of dirt or something?
 

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JustShaveIt said:
Your brothers are smart young men. It's not too hard to realize those drugs that cause harmful side effects is not worth the $$ and damage when eventually it will just fall out anyway.

Vainity, is a big problem for young guys. You don't want to lose those youthful looks and you go into denial about your aging process. Only when you accept your baldness can you heal your mind and go on with life. On the other hand you have the people that try every snake oil around and end up wearing toupee's or getting disfiguring transplants, which in the end makes them miserable and depressed as ever and stuck living a lie and not being able to enjoy the simple things in life such as the wind,rain and water.

wow.....do you consider this your calling in life....

No one is listening to you...so why do your gums keep flapping.
 

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Only when you accept your baldness can you heal your mind and go on with life.

Um ok?
My life is just fine, tone it down a bit pal. There are plenty of responsible people who take finasteride.
 

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I just consulted another bald guy. NW4v. He does not care enough to use Dermmatch, but he does want to stop his hair loss, and does not mind some topicals as long as they will work. I told him finasteride, nizoral, and foam, and said he can put some apple poly or spironolactone in his shampoo if he wants. He said he'll look at my website and do his own research before he gets anything. He honestly does not know propecia from scam, and really wants to find something that actually works. I wonder what I could email him to convince him. Every scam has some fake study, and Avocore says it is FDA approved.
 

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hair today gone tomorrow said:
neo1234 said:
he told me yesterday that he was balding. well i knew he got temples but i didnt know they were growing.so he is balding.
i told him about treatments but he doesnt want take any health risks (finasteride) and only wants to spend 5-10 $ per months in it.he doesnt seem to care much if he gets bald or not.
its up to him, i dont want to tell him anything.

my 18yo brother is balding as well and it doesn't bother him...he doesn't even want to get on propecia.

I wish i had his mindset...im too vain, i guess...o well.

See how they feel when they get to nw3/4+ :wink: They just might change their minds.
 
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hair today gone tomorrow said:
neo1234 said:
ya, me too. :oops:


but u accepted your hair loss..i didnt.

as i read you still got good hair . why cant you accept that its like it is?
thats the only thing i did. i accepted it how it is at the moment but still try to improve it.
and i show it how it is.
 
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JustShaveIt said:
Your brothers are smart young men. It's not too hard to realize those drugs that cause harmful side effects is not worth the $$ and damage when eventually it will just fall out anyway.

Vainity, is a big problem for young guys. You don't want to lose those youthful looks and you go into denial about your aging process. Only when you accept your baldness can you heal your mind and go on with life. On the other hand you have the people that try every snake oil around and end up wearing toupee's or getting disfiguring transplants, which in the end makes them miserable and depressed as ever and stuck living a lie and not being able to enjoy the simple things in life such as the wind,rain and water.

justshaveit, the drugs dont have harmful side effects.
 

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Hey I'm off out to enjoy the wind and the rain. :lol:
 

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s.a.f said:
[quote="hair today gone tomorrow":b2d1a]
neo1234 said:
he told me yesterday that he was balding. well i knew he got temples but i didnt know they were growing.so he is balding.
i told him about treatments but he doesnt want take any health risks (finasteride) and only wants to spend 5-10 $ per months in it.he doesnt seem to care much if he gets bald or not.
its up to him, i dont want to tell him anything.

my 18yo brother is balding as well and it doesn't bother him...he doesn't even want to get on propecia.

I wish i had his mindset...im too vain, i guess...o well.

See how they feel when they get to nw3/4+ :wink: They just might change their minds.[/quote:b2d1a]

So true. They don't do anything and stand on their high palace and say it does not matter. Then it all goes downhill. Then it is too late, and they still say it does not matter (in public) or come on here and whine. I have no sympathy for them if they went around telling guys like me not to improve themselves.

You don't have to want to improve yourself, or tell others to. But damn it, if someone else is trying to improve himself, you do not tell him not to, or that it does not matter. I hold those people in low regards and will laugh at them when they far down hill.
 

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antonio666 said:
neo 1234 your broter is lucky if it doesn't bother him

it will. Soon he'll get every time someone points out or reminds him of his hair loss. He'll angrily say, "it does not matter. I'm not shallow like you. Stop reminding me of it."
 

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I am 100% sure that any man would prefer not to lose his hair. However, accepting the fact that they are getting older and their body is changing can be far easier for some.
 

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justshaveit:

I think this guy watches to much captain planet :freaked2: , you missed fire btw since your naming all elements. anyway, no young guys dont really want to keep their young looks, i for one just dont want to look OLDER then i should at my age, decent aging is fine now losing your hair makes you look extemely older. therefore its young mens worst nightmare. you say you have accepted it but i bet you a million dollars you still WANT hair. later enjoy your free mind and elemental forces... p.s you lose for giving up atleast we have faith :D
 
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