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I hate myself i hate my looks my height my appearance and a tonne of other things. I've always been so self critical. This and low self esteem has always been part of my life. I used to scoff at people "you just got to love yourself" . I HATED hearing that sh*t. Tell an ugly male to just "love himself" and its supposd to make him feel ok being lonely and without women?
But as i've matured i realised something. You got to be kind to yourself. Due to my mind set i had a relationship with a women who also hated herself. She would sleep with any man just to feel good about herself SHe was total trash. But we were together because I was like that. Tthrough this process i realised something -
I might be without women. And i might be ugly and balding. But i got to have self respect. You got to be friends with myself. I wouldn't say i have self love.But i realise now. You got to be friends with yourself. Once you realise this you don't need anyone else.
Maybe this is all just cope. But with this mind set. i don't feel lonely anymore. Things are ok.
I no longer need anyone else. I have myself. Myself has arrived.
But as i've matured i realised something. You got to be kind to yourself. Due to my mind set i had a relationship with a women who also hated herself. She would sleep with any man just to feel good about herself SHe was total trash. But we were together because I was like that. Tthrough this process i realised something -
I might be without women. And i might be ugly and balding. But i got to have self respect. You got to be friends with myself. I wouldn't say i have self love.But i realise now. You got to be friends with yourself. Once you realise this you don't need anyone else.
Maybe this is all just cope. But with this mind set. i don't feel lonely anymore. Things are ok.
I no longer need anyone else. I have myself. Myself has arrived.