male pattern baldness worries will be over once u find your soulmate or love

[chewbaca]

This is according to my uncle who in his late 40s started losing hair in his 20s.He said once u found yr soulmate or love, hair just does not matter anymore because she will accept u no matter what. True love always wins over all odds. What a philosophical thought which inspired me at the moment

 

[jeffsss]

i found her.. but i'm jsut worried about keeping her.

it's not so much my hair either. it's my mood.

dont know how to beat it.

 

[chewbaca]

good then

 

[jeffsss]

good then

not good.. I'm dreading the day my hair get's so bad she'll be embarrased to be around me.

 

[andyhunt]

The only person who will be embarassed about your hair will be you.
Most partners don't care about your hairline!

My partner actually preferred me when I was bald!

 

[Britannia]

True. But be prepared for a relapse when the relationship ends. And then your left back on the market minus your hair and your confidence on shatters. Talking from experience here guys.

 

[hairwegoagain]

Give her some credit. If you let your hair rule you, you're probably not exceedingly pleasant to be around - and she may interpret it as disinterest on your part.

If you know she's "the one," have you considered taking her off the market? That doesn't come around very often. Has absolutely nothing to do with hair.

i found her.. but i'm jsut worried about keeping her.

it's not so much my hair either. it's my mood.

dont know how to beat it.

 

[jeffsss]

True. But be prepared for a relapse when the relationship ends. And then your left back on the market minus your hair and your confidence on shatters. Talking from experience here guys.

hope that doesnt happen to me.

what exactly went wrong? your confidence? your actual hair loss? what? how did you cope?

 

[Britannia]

True. But be prepared for a relapse when the relationship ends. And then your left back on the market minus your hair and your confidence on shatters. Talking from experience here guys.

hope that doesnt happen to me.

what exactly went wrong? your confidence? your actual hair loss? what? how did you cope?

The breakdown of my relationship had nothing to do with confidence and/or hair loss. It just wasnt meant to be.

 

[Britannia]

True. But be prepared for a relapse when the relationship ends. And then your left back on the market minus your hair and your confidence on shatters. Talking from experience here guys.

hope that doesnt happen to me.

what exactly went wrong? your confidence? your actual hair loss? what? how did you cope?

The breakdown of my relationship had nothing to do with confidence and/or hair loss. It just wasnt meant to be.

 

[chewbaca]

True. But be prepared for a relapse when the relationship ends. And then your left back on the market minus your hair and your confidence on shatters. Talking from experience here guys.

hope that doesnt happen to me.

what exactly went wrong? your confidence? your actual hair loss? what? how did you cope?

The breakdown of my relationship had nothing to do with confidence and/or hair loss. It just wasnt meant to be.

true

 

[hair_tomorrow]

Re: male pattern baldness worries will be over once u find your soulmate or lo

This is according to my uncle who in his late 40s started losing hair in his 20s.He said once u found yr soulmate or love, hair just does not matter anymore because she will accept u no matter what. True love always wins over all odds. What a philosophical thought which inspired me at the moment

I'm very fortunate to have found and married my soul-mate. She wouldn't give a rat's arse if I was a total cue ball.

It's how you feel about yourself that will determine whether or not your hair matters to you.

Personally - although I'm glad to have have found my life's partner - I'd prefer to go through life w/ a bunch of hair on top of my head.

 

[Red Rose]

Re: male pattern baldness worries will be over once u find your soulmate or lo

It's how you feel about yourself that will determine whether or not your hair matters to you.

Yes and it is how you act that determines whether or not she likes you. Nothing, NOTHING is more off putting to a woman (or to anyone, for that matter) than a bloke with an insecurity problem. We all come here because we perceive hair loss to be a problem or to some extent suffer from low self esteem. However, the majority of men will have some degree of hair loss in their lifetime. Therefore, to ever acknowledge to a third party that it is a problem or to let it become an "issue", is to apologise for being a man which, of course, is absurd. This is really really trite - so apologies, but the older you get, the more perspective you gain on life and the less you concern yourself with superficialities.

Personally - although I'm glad to have have found my life's partner - I'd prefer to go through life w/ a bunch of hair on top of my head.

This is true though as well. :wink: