MillerEvolution
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I think people with the mindset of Kyr right now really need to take a step back and look at themselves, and realize what they're complaining about. Seriously, this is hair, people. Yes, I'm trying my hardest to keep it too, but at the same time I always know in the back of my mind I could have been born deformed, retarded, a midget, or with some kind of crippling disease. Try taking a walk through a burn victims unit and start complaining about your hair loss to them and how bad you felt for yourself. Try spending a tour of duty in Iraq and think about how much your hair loss matters then, ya know? And for those of you that think the rest of the world, including girls are constantly laughing at your thinning hair--
F*ck it! If anything, they're laughing at how insecure you handle yourself for letting hair loss get to you. You've got to get yourselves out of the mindset that girls opinions, or anybody's, of you matter. If you think of yourself as unworthy to even talk to girls, that's exactly what is going to happen. By contrast, if you walk around thinking you're the best thing in the world for her, and if she doesn't like you, it's her problem, you're going to see success. For all the times you say to yourself, "I can't believe she's with that guy, what a loser he is," you think it's some coincidence that all these girls date guys that don't look like they're on her level? No, it's because he doesn't give a f*ck what she or anybody else thinks of them. Physical beauty means next to nothing to a girl. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, things could be a million times worse. There isn't a bald person in here that couldn't get a girl or succeed in life. If you're not succeeding, it's because of your own outlook on life, not the hair you were dealt. I've been through your mindsets and back, and I can tell you from experience you're worrying about nothing.
I'm thinning and receding, and two of my best friends are too, and we still get very nice *** on a routine basis (now I have a g/f, so it's different) from some of the best clubs in Philly. Physical stats? I'm 6'3", 230, in good shape, my buddy is 5'9" 180 in poor shape, and one is 5'10" in fair shape. 5'9" has really bad hairloss, but he got the best haircut he could get, he wears nice clothes and carries himself upright and proud. That's the kind of stuff girls respond to. I dare each and every one of you that feels like Kyr to walk and up and strike a conversation with 10 girls and see how many blatantly slap you or roll their eyes and just walk away. I'll tell you now, it WON'T HAPPEN. 5'9" lands more girls than any of us, so what's that tell you?
Don't mean to rant here or get holier than thou, I just think a lot of people in here need to re-frame their point of view. Think about it.
-E
F*ck it! If anything, they're laughing at how insecure you handle yourself for letting hair loss get to you. You've got to get yourselves out of the mindset that girls opinions, or anybody's, of you matter. If you think of yourself as unworthy to even talk to girls, that's exactly what is going to happen. By contrast, if you walk around thinking you're the best thing in the world for her, and if she doesn't like you, it's her problem, you're going to see success. For all the times you say to yourself, "I can't believe she's with that guy, what a loser he is," you think it's some coincidence that all these girls date guys that don't look like they're on her level? No, it's because he doesn't give a f*ck what she or anybody else thinks of them. Physical beauty means next to nothing to a girl. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, things could be a million times worse. There isn't a bald person in here that couldn't get a girl or succeed in life. If you're not succeeding, it's because of your own outlook on life, not the hair you were dealt. I've been through your mindsets and back, and I can tell you from experience you're worrying about nothing.
I'm thinning and receding, and two of my best friends are too, and we still get very nice *** on a routine basis (now I have a g/f, so it's different) from some of the best clubs in Philly. Physical stats? I'm 6'3", 230, in good shape, my buddy is 5'9" 180 in poor shape, and one is 5'10" in fair shape. 5'9" has really bad hairloss, but he got the best haircut he could get, he wears nice clothes and carries himself upright and proud. That's the kind of stuff girls respond to. I dare each and every one of you that feels like Kyr to walk and up and strike a conversation with 10 girls and see how many blatantly slap you or roll their eyes and just walk away. I'll tell you now, it WON'T HAPPEN. 5'9" lands more girls than any of us, so what's that tell you?
Don't mean to rant here or get holier than thou, I just think a lot of people in here need to re-frame their point of view. Think about it.
-E
