It's Really Annoying...!

[Pall]

Whenever i met my friends , they talk about my hairloss and especially everyone is telling me "you're going bald.You'll be bald" And smile. They say this as a joke. And after that they tell me "it was a joke you wont be bald". Im Totaly bored of this situation. I stopped talking most of them. I had a very old friend from my childhood , whenever we met he was talking about my hair. "you are going bald etc..." I didnt say anything , but he insisted on talking about it for 2 years. I swear that he talked about it for 2 years. Now i dont even call him. Stopped talking because its easy to analize his psycology and reactions . Did i steal his girl Friend? no ! did i do something bad to him? no. But he is being happy about my hairloss. You can see the happiness in their eyes but why ? This is really annoying.

Do u face a smilar problem with others ?

Real Friends are different They never talk about your hairloss although they see it because they know that it will make u upset..

 

[kiwi1973]

yip i got a mate like this keeps calling me slaphead or keeps saying iam am 35 when who know i am younger then him
the funny thing is hes just starting to lose his hair, but i think hes in denial(the first stage of hairloss)

so its payback time

 

[flux]

These people have insecurity issues. They are looking for ways to feel better about themselves, and seeing a peer lose their hair accomplishes this. They are pety, little people, and my responce would be "You're an a**h**. Have a nice life."

 

[Axon]

These people have insecurity issues. They are looking for ways to feel better about themselves, and seeing a peer lose their hair accomplishes this. They are pety, little people, and my responce would be "You're an a**h**. Have a nice life."

Pretty much, yeah. Some of my friends just love pointing it out to me.

They're all fat though, so I hit 'em back.

 

[DC]

I've been through alot of the same stuff. I had one friend in particular that would give me sh*t and sometimes just look at my head and smile. I hadn't seen the guy for a few years after college. I saw him a few weeks ago and noticed he had some thinning. I was more than happy to point it out.

 

[Guest]

I've been through alot of the same stuff. I had one friend in particular that would give me sh*t and sometimes just look at my head and smile. I hadn't seen the guy for a few years after college. I saw him a few weeks ago and noticed he had some thinning. I was more than happy to point it out.

he's probably posting here now.....?


DC is that you?


Ty

 

[DC]

yeah its me. Funny thing about people who dog people for hairloss are they are just really jealous or insecure. In my book if you make fun of someone with a problem that they can't change it's like making fun of someone in a wheel chair. At first my friends made comments about me being on propecia. Now, that most of my friends are late 20's I can tell you a few should think about some treatment themselves. Most of these are the same people that gave me sh*t in my early 20's. I guess what goes around comes around.

 

[Green Soap]

The only people who've ever made fun of my hairloss are people who have really bad insecurity.

You almost never see a confident, well brought up individual poking fun at someone else. It's always those on the bottom rung of the ladder trying to find whatever reason they can to put someone, anyone, underneath them.

It's called, "the pecking order" and it's seen in biology all the time. Animals with perceived genetic differences or weaknesses are culled from the others. Survival of the fittest. Looks are part of that. Hair is a BIG part of "looks".

Luckily for me, my situation is not so bad and it seems that even those with very bad loss can come back big time so the name of the game here is to take your regimen dutifully, stay educated, stay abreast of the technology, and win.

Eventually, your friends will see you in a year or so and they will say, "Damn! Is that so and so? (Wasn't he thinning?)"

In the meanwhile, do good in school. Work out. Take advantage of every opportunity in life that comes along. When you get to where you want to be, you will be completely happy and fullfilled.

 

[Brasileirao]

Ive been lucky, my friends are supportive and tell me that Im NOT balding. They tell me not to worry and that Im just paranoid. They never bring it up, I have really cool friends! We all joke around about all kinds of sh*t and really never put each other down. I guess its just the people you surround yourself with. 8)

 

[blue]

when i hear about these people i think one of two things:
one part of me thinks that whatever bad thinigs this guy does will come back to him 10 fold.....
the other part of me wonders what his head would look like on a stick.