Is the impact of hairloss somewhat in our heads?

[Guest]

Think about it guys...the only reason we really worry about it so much is because we're used to having it...it has to do with what we started with, and how our culture views it...i.e. indians view big forehead as a sign of good luck...therefore they'd actually be JEALOUS of your balding...you only make it negative becuz you started with hair...if you for example (and all humans were born say with antlers), and you never even knew what hair was do you think you'd be worrying about it? Just saying its really all in the head.

 

[Private Ryan]

i don't think it all in the head... i believe most people does look better with full head of hair than with a horse shoes... most get attention from girls easier with hair... it does make a real different in our daily life...

of course, if you can stop caring about it and what people think, hairloss should not be a problem to you... but i have no doubt our mind does make it alot worst then it is...

 

[Guest]

They look more better..because it is just the way we think...we were born with the idea of it...what exactly makes it better? only your brain processes it as more "aesthetically pleasing"...in other words our egos.

 

[Aplunk1]

Society can go f*** itself.

 

[Guest]

Easy there andy...you seemed to be in a good mood earlier today what happened to that bundle of postivie energy.

 

[Aplunk1]

It went right out the window.

I put in my two-weeks notice at my job.

Doesn't look like my situation is going to get any easier on me.

I kept trying to call my parents to let them know I was having difficulty at my job. They won't even return my calls.

I guess I am a f*** up.

 

[Guest]

Aplunk1 man...im sure you have heard lots of reasons why your life isn't or wasn't that bad...to share some words with you...a priest of mines told me...to live my life like a recovering alcoholic...that is..take everything day by day...as much as you itch to do not plan for the future...because the future plans you..Aplunk but really, I have seen your photos and bro, honestly unless im blind you got a normal fuken head of hair, with a mature hair line...hell I got a near perfect hairline as you can see in my photos but mega loss in the diffuse way...it SUCKS when i have to swim to help alleviate another problem I have (scoliosis a sideways curvature of my spine that unleashes a storm of painful nerve impulses down my leg everyday)...yet I cope...people have survived wars...aplunk for goodness sake men of previous times didn't spend time worrying about stuff like hair...they were out fighting wars, providing for their life...being a man meant having the balls to be fit enough to stop any intruder...although times have changed my friend...fortify yourself...I know its easier said then done...I too am mentally weak, I am not consistent...but I always get up to fight on...becuase we are all like diamonds in the rough...and the sooner we realize it and the sooner we harness the powers within us...you can guarantee our lifes will shine with the brilliance of diamonds.

 

[Private Ryan]

They look more better..because it is just the way we think...we were born with the idea of it...what exactly makes it better? only your brain processes it as more "aesthetically pleasing"...in other words our egos.

with your logic, any thing can be relative in this case... there will be no longer any constant because every thing can be "the way we think", "born with the idea", brain process" etc... you are not wrong but such idea just not in tune with the real world out there... in this case, we can also say that we don't have to be well dress, clean etc as all can be "the way we think"...

we are talking about the real world out there... not a "truth seeking" one of what is actually causing it... you can think in anyway you want... but the actual fact is that, you can go into a room full of people, most will find that people with hair actually look better... that the truth fact although a painful one... it have been proven good looking people does get better job, more friends etc...

if you can live on an ideal, that will be great... but for most, the very sad fact that most look older than they are with hairloss...

most people that said look are not important are actaully beautiful people... those who say money is not everything are acutally those who have enough to live on... try asking people that have problem making end meet whether money is everything... try telling a disfigure person that look are not important... that the real world...

 

[Bll3r]

Society can go f*** itself.

Bll3r approves

 

[powersam]

you kinda argued yourself out there moose. if something is attractive because we think its attractive, then oddly enough it is attractive. we dont want to be bald because in our minds and most other peoples, it is less attractive. if we all had antlers, then not having antlers would be equally un attractive.

except biller of course, he'll always be beautiful to me.

 

[ACT10Npack]

Hair is not everything but when you start lossing it then it's the main problem that you think of if you go by looks. I know looks are not everything but when you want to pick up a woman, a full head of hair will not hurt. There is no such thing of beautiful people, just people in general.