Is confidence even real? confidence overrated and sh*t advice

[Feelsbadman]

When i used to be good looking i'd go to the gym and women would eye fucke me and when i would meet girls off tinder they would want me to c*m inside them within 30 minutes of meeting them.. all that attention and validation you feel good and feel "confident" you can go up to any chick it's just flowing through you oozing..

then you lose your hair and become ugly male and you get none of this.. and you go out on dates and get rejected or need 3-4 dates to sleep with a girl mean while alpha chads f*** that same chick within 15 mins 30 mins

hw are u supposed to be confident when this is the truth?

confidence isn't even real its a by product of your success or validation in real life

 

[INT]

When i used to be good looking i'd go to the gym and women would eye fucke me and when i would meet girls off tinder they would want me to c*m inside them within 30 minutes of meeting them..

You are lying again. That never happened.

 

[Feelsbadman]

You are lying again. That never happened.

why would i care if u dont believe me?

 

[INT]

why would i care if u dont believe me?

You could have a look at yourself and think: why do I keep making up lies and polarizing my stories just to make them more dramatic?

 

[Feelsbadman]

You could have a look at yourself and think: why do I keep making up lies and polarizing my stories just to make them more dramatic?

don't believe idc
only speaking from my own experience

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Meanwhile in reality if you can get to meet a hot girl and f*** her after 3-4 dates that's great, means you are doing something right.

Ugly guys get 0 matches.

 

[Trompt]

When i used to be good looking i'd go to the gym and women would eye fucke me and when i would meet girls off tinder they would want me to c*m inside them within 30 minutes of meeting them.. all that attention and validation you feel good and feel "confident" you can go up to any chick it's just flowing through you oozing..

then you lose your hair and become ugly male and you get none of this.. and you go out on dates and get rejected or need 3-4 dates to sleep with a girl mean while alpha chads f*** that same chick within 15 mins 30 mins

hw are u supposed to be confident when this is the truth?

confidence isn't even real its a by product of your success or validation in real life

Brutal. Based and blackpilled.

 

[vondoom]

confidence is just being confident about yourself... once you need validation, you are not confident anymore...
you also cant fake it, just like you cant fake the “dark triad”, or the gloomy silent type, even though a lot try to do so...

you either are what you want to be, or you are not...
having skill and so on usually goves you confidence, so does being good at your job, having knowledge about something, whatever...

 

[czecha]

You are lying again. That never happened.

Cope. Even if he is lying this is exactly what happens to the top 1%

 

[INT]

Cope. Even if he is lying this is exactly what happens to the top 1%

OK incel

 

[doubleindemnity]

Doesn't confidence result from demonstrated success in a certain area? I will be a confident musician if I have played music and it has been received well in the past. I will be a confident soccer player if I have been part of a winning team etc. etc. So, since a bald guy can not have success dating due to his baldness, isn't it impossible for him to be confident?

 

[czecha]

OK incel

Cope

 

[czecha]

Doesn't confidence result from demonstrated success in a certain area? I will be a confident musician if I have played music and it has been received well in the past. I will be a confident soccer player if I have been part of a winning team etc. etc. So, since a bald guy can not have success dating due to his baldness, isn't it impossible for him to be confident?

Cope

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Doesn't confidence result from demonstrated success in a certain area? I will be a confident musician if I have played music and it has been received well in the past. I will be a confident soccer player if I have been part of a winning team etc. etc. So, since a bald guy can not have success dating due to his baldness, isn't it impossible for him to be confident?

Yes I believe that confidence is naturally built upon positive experiences. How tf can someone be confident if they have 0 success and keep getting rejected?

 

[INT]

Cope

Ok incel

 

[Capone]

Confidence comes naturally when you feel good, and when you look good you feel good simple as that. Get it fixed whatever is bothering you.

 

[Milkonos]

Why do I have the impression that everyone on this forum is a former cHaD ?

 

[czecha]

Why do I have the impression that everyone on this forum is a former cHaD ?

Because only chads would even fall from getting male pattern baldness

chad = life
Subchad = cope

Here is a good test for you if you would be chad with hair: wear a hat and go outside. Do girls start smiling when they see you, fixing their hair etc? You would be chad with hair. They don’t? Schedule your lefort 3 in a ukranian dungeon before even thinking about your hair again

you are only safe if you are a bdsm giving chad

literally everyone wlse will get cucked by young girls with a libido

 

[INT]

Because only chads would even fall from getting male pattern baldness

chad = life
Subchad = cope

Here is a good test for you if you would be chad with hair: wear a hat and go outside. Do girls start smiling when they see you, fixing their hair etc? You would be chad with hair. They don’t? Schedule your lefort 3 in a ukranian dungeon before even thinking about your hair again

you are only safe if you are a bdsm giving chad

literally everyone wlse will get cucked by young girls with a libido

OK incel

 

[czecha]

OK incel

Cope