zeroes
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I would have had the hottest girl at the bar last night. Granted she was drunk and part of of our group, one of the guys in our group tried to hit on her all night, he is nw1 and a bit taller than me. She wasn't interested in him at all, she only wanted me who is a diffuse thinner, temples are gone, shy, has anxiety problems, has no confidence and guarded. If I was a little less guarded I wouldn't be trying to undo the damage I did last night.
Lesson, you can be the most f'd up person in the world such as myself and girls will still come after you, you just have to have decent social skills. She was aggressive and initiated everything until I started sending her mixed messages. Luckily for me it was after she gave me her number and I gave her mine. I'm nothing special, I can't dance yet she was all over me all I have going for me is I am slightly above average height and can grow a beard. I showed weakness, I said I wasn't into one night stands etc. I made one fatal mistake imo and that is being too guarded.
I've also heard rumors there is another girl after me, I am early 30's both girls are cute. The one from last night is mid 20's the other around the same age.
Not all girls are looking for confident nw1. Maybe I would have being her project I probably will never know if she was into me or not as I reckon the damage is done.
All you have to do is get out there, when girls get drunk they are aggressive. I was nice to her all night I was only too guarded.
I've at least managed to exchange text msg with her today and she remembers last night.
Lesson, you can be the most f'd up person in the world such as myself and girls will still come after you, you just have to have decent social skills. She was aggressive and initiated everything until I started sending her mixed messages. Luckily for me it was after she gave me her number and I gave her mine. I'm nothing special, I can't dance yet she was all over me all I have going for me is I am slightly above average height and can grow a beard. I showed weakness, I said I wasn't into one night stands etc. I made one fatal mistake imo and that is being too guarded.
I've also heard rumors there is another girl after me, I am early 30's both girls are cute. The one from last night is mid 20's the other around the same age.
Not all girls are looking for confident nw1. Maybe I would have being her project I probably will never know if she was into me or not as I reckon the damage is done.
All you have to do is get out there, when girls get drunk they are aggressive. I was nice to her all night I was only too guarded.
I've at least managed to exchange text msg with her today and she remembers last night.