Here is the scenario: I have been seeing this girl for over 2 months and we are exclusive. She always wants to style my hair and I won't let her touch it. I am a NW3 with diffuse thinning in the front and down the middle. I feel all I can sport is the ceasar combing forward look. Now granted I am 30 and she is 34 could it be that she knows I am going bald and doesn;t care or she really doesn't pay attention to it. Should I open this discussion up with her and let her know I am insecure?
I won't let my GF touch my hair...
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RaginDemon
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she is 34, she doesn't get to choose jack, you are safe to talk about it bro.
metalheaddude
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RaginDemon said:
lol! f-uck yeah man. Demon is right, she is not exactly prime age anymore, so her choices in Bf's are greatly reduced. She would love you regardless of your hair. But she is also at a much more understanding age, she might even find it slightly sexy and manly that you have some hairloss. Its the younger girls around 20 thats the problem and I also have a serious problem of not allowing girls to touch my hair, because i litterally spend 45 mins in front of the mirror before i go out perfecting it and styling it, with a mass of products in such a way that it appears like im not balding at all. However one stroke of my hair in the wrong place or some strong wind gusts would expose me as a fraud iam revealing my receaded temples. A few girls have done the hair stroke thing. The first two got a shock of the amount of product in it, I could see it in there faces. So it stopped them from proceeding further. The last girl (really hot) brushed my fringe back and saw my receaded temples, i will never forget the look of surprise and disgust on her face. I still managed to seduce her tho lol. She was already fairly turned on by that stage so she was like meh what the hell :jump:
metalheaddude said:
why do u keep it so long? it's just more worries.
honestly, unless you are like a Norwood 3+, cutting the sides short, leaving the top alil longer, and getting the bangs short will be much safer. it's fail proof. your top will be thicker, the receded temples will look natural, and since your bangs are short, you don't have to worry about wind messing up your hair and exposing your temples.
either that or just spike the front up. even if your hair kind of thin on the front, if you keep the sides short, it'll be evened out.
i think covering the temples hella risky, worrisome, and will just take too much time out of your life to style.
*shrug*
First off to some of the younger guys: I dated a 26 and a 24 year old before this one and she turns me on way more than the other two did. She is an animal in the sack. Feels great to be with her.
To the others: My hair is only a few inches long. I don't try to cover up my temples because they are gone adn I am really thin in the front. I don't have that long of hair. I just call my style the forward comb Ceaser look. Its not really a comb over because the hair isn't that long. The funny thing is I asked my friends wife if I was going bald and the first thing she did was look at the crown (which has no male pattern baldness that I can see) and totally dismissed my front. I was shocked because that is where all the trouble is...
To the others: My hair is only a few inches long. I don't try to cover up my temples because they are gone adn I am really thin in the front. I don't have that long of hair. I just call my style the forward comb Ceaser look. Its not really a comb over because the hair isn't that long. The funny thing is I asked my friends wife if I was going bald and the first thing she did was look at the crown (which has no male pattern baldness that I can see) and totally dismissed my front. I was shocked because that is where all the trouble is...
metalheaddude
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ps1freak said:
Your right. It is risky and im tired of trying to conceal it, its very time consuming and tiresome. Then again I think most girls spend 2 hours in the morning doing make up. So 45 minutes for my hair is not to bad.
