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This isn't specifically related to hair loss, as there are many different ways to be ugly, and I think hair loss is going to be nearly cured in the next fifteen years anyway.
It's related to online dating. When I was younger people met others in school, summer camp, church/synagogue/mosque/temple, their jobs, night clubs, activities, et cetera. That is being phased out by online dating, I'm not sure the exact rate and how it impacts different age groups.
Online dating allows one to cast a wider net, and it yields dates for good-looking at a minimal cost of effort -- they need only make a profile and read the compliments that pour in, rather than dress up and go to a club. As they are the most desirable members, it is their incentives that drive the behaviour of the whole community, as the community will largely follow them.
When I was an undergraduate, I talked to people in class, and I got involved in student politics and the school newspaper. Now, I think a lot of students attend class with their earphones on, they keep their earphones on all day, or they look at their cell phone for a few hours a day. You cannot meet people in real life if you're staring at your cell phone all day. They will meet fewer people. If this accelerates, as I suspect/fear it will, we will see much higher rate of incel-dom among men. According to surveys only 5% or less my age are virgins in this society. Perhaps that number will climb far higher.
If that happens, the mainstream media and the general public will have no clue. We will see a lot of articles in The Guardian, The Washington Post, etc. about how men are unwilling to commit. We may also see some condescending articles about how some men don't get dates because they don't groom themselves and don't dress properly and don't have confidence. The underlying basis for that will be 80% of women competing for 20% of men, and not understanding why they're not getting partners. You are free to tell me that these sexual dynamics already exist in human nature, but my retort is that I believe that online dating amplifies them, whereas traditional social structures (marriage, church, shunning of adultery, monogamy) inhibit them.
It's related to online dating. When I was younger people met others in school, summer camp, church/synagogue/mosque/temple, their jobs, night clubs, activities, et cetera. That is being phased out by online dating, I'm not sure the exact rate and how it impacts different age groups.
Online dating allows one to cast a wider net, and it yields dates for good-looking at a minimal cost of effort -- they need only make a profile and read the compliments that pour in, rather than dress up and go to a club. As they are the most desirable members, it is their incentives that drive the behaviour of the whole community, as the community will largely follow them.
When I was an undergraduate, I talked to people in class, and I got involved in student politics and the school newspaper. Now, I think a lot of students attend class with their earphones on, they keep their earphones on all day, or they look at their cell phone for a few hours a day. You cannot meet people in real life if you're staring at your cell phone all day. They will meet fewer people. If this accelerates, as I suspect/fear it will, we will see much higher rate of incel-dom among men. According to surveys only 5% or less my age are virgins in this society. Perhaps that number will climb far higher.
If that happens, the mainstream media and the general public will have no clue. We will see a lot of articles in The Guardian, The Washington Post, etc. about how men are unwilling to commit. We may also see some condescending articles about how some men don't get dates because they don't groom themselves and don't dress properly and don't have confidence. The underlying basis for that will be 80% of women competing for 20% of men, and not understanding why they're not getting partners. You are free to tell me that these sexual dynamics already exist in human nature, but my retort is that I believe that online dating amplifies them, whereas traditional social structures (marriage, church, shunning of adultery, monogamy) inhibit them.