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Guess I am really lucky that so many pretty girls are into intellectual guys........ :lol:
Guess I am really lucky that so many pretty girls are into intellectual guys........ :lol:
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To the others:
I am not a "self-pitying victim" who actually enjoys his situation, how sick would that would be? I hate being a social outcast, a male virgin, a loser. I have tried to change this. I have changed my hairstyle, bought new clothes, lost some weight, started studying, moved out from home, tried to start conversations, I have also been in a psychiatry, a hospital for depressions and currently seeing two psychiatrists...... And it all failed, so I ended up with only disappointments and a destroyed self-confidence. So I have decided that it is over now. I am doomed to failure. I gotta accept myself as I am with all my ugliness and mistakes. In the end I can´t force it. That is just how it is.
Nevertheless I gotta get this sh*t off my chest. The reason I do this here is that I like this forum and most people. It helps me, if you are feeling annoyed by me you might just ignore me.
I am not a "self-pitying victim" who actually enjoys his situation, how sick would that would be? I hate being a social outcast, a male virgin, a loser. I have tried to change this. I have changed my hairstyle, bought new clothes, lost some weight, started studying, moved out from home, tried to start conversations, I have also been in a psychiatry, a hospital for depressions and currently seeing two psychiatrists...... And it all failed, so I ended up with only disappointments and a destroyed self-confidence. So I have decided that it is over now. I am doomed to failure. I gotta accept myself as I am with all my ugliness and mistakes. In the end I can´t force it. That is just how it is.
Nevertheless I gotta get this sh*t off my chest. The reason I do this here is that I like this forum and most people. It helps me, if you are feeling annoyed by me you might just ignore me.
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Taugenichts said:
taug listen man....i know guys that DONT look nearly as good as you do...f*** i know a kid who weighs in close to 500 lbs and he isnt a virgin. Do you think girls find him attractive? prob not most...but some obv. did! lets face it you are not a model and neither am I, but you are NOT ugly...youre an average looking guy. Everything is in your head....if you think of yourself as ugly and its constantly on your mind...you will truly see yourself as that. You honestly have to leave the house more...go out, get some more hobbies and stop thinking about yourself.
I used to know a guy in his early 20s who worked out every day, was 6-2, had a Lotus Elise, decent job, not bad looking (not that I would 'judge' a guy! :x ) and he just couldn't get a girl. Why? Because he was an anti-social bastard. He didn't try talking to women, and even if he did, he'd be Mr Negativity. So watch and learn.
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ya, i think tauge...there is no other way. you need to learn (social skills). and you need to learn it the hard way. trial and error. you are just at the beginning , so mistakes and errors are normal, pretty normal, but it will get better. if you think you have lost , then often there comes something which brings you far far forward. never give up. even if you think you are lost...never give up! and you will succeed i promise. you wont be a ladies man in the next year, but maybe in two years? its possible. believe me. you will succeed if you just dont give up!
make that your new signature..."never give up!" . the saying is from winston churchill. and you know uk had a hard time with the germans in world war II , but he didnt give up and in the end uk won over germany.
you will succeed if yon dont give up... you can quote me on that. you want it. so you will succeed.
no more to say.
make that your new signature..."never give up!" . the saying is from winston churchill. and you know uk had a hard time with the germans in world war II , but he didnt give up and in the end uk won over germany.
you will succeed if yon dont give up... you can quote me on that. you want it. so you will succeed.
no more to say.
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i think tauge got real potential since he does something. with ibm i dont think so. he likes his self-pity and he find reasons why he is in such a bad situation.
tauge is much different from ibm. tauge will succeed, ibm not. for me ibm is lost in society.
tauge is much different from ibm. tauge will succeed, ibm not. for me ibm is lost in society.
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hey, you can learn much from war.
in fact my opinion is ...life is a war. especially in matters of money and hot women....which everyone wants.
thats a real war out there. you need to realize it lol.
go one time in a club and approach the wrong woman...then you have a battle lol.
and money is really about to be or not to be. if you dont have the power ...there is only one word your boss needs to say ...and you are out.
as long as you work...its no real war.
but if you start your own business.....then better know about war and better handle your opponents like your opponents in a war.
its really not funny out there. if you want to succeed more than other poeple its a war. because there are limited recources and so you need to fight for them. its money and girls.
lol
i mean , im laughing but its the f*****g cold truth.
i am really feeling with bill gates how he handled his opponents. i really understand what he did.
i would do so too, if i was in his situation.
maybe in north america and europe its still funny...all this . .. but in other regions of the world ...they really fight for recources. they really kill each other. if they got more money, they would nt do so.
money , fame , power, beautiful girls....that are things which many people want but they are limited.
thats why beeing on earth is a big big war.
in fact my opinion is ...life is a war. especially in matters of money and hot women....which everyone wants.
thats a real war out there. you need to realize it lol.
go one time in a club and approach the wrong woman...then you have a battle lol.
and money is really about to be or not to be. if you dont have the power ...there is only one word your boss needs to say ...and you are out.
as long as you work...its no real war.
but if you start your own business.....then better know about war and better handle your opponents like your opponents in a war.
its really not funny out there. if you want to succeed more than other poeple its a war. because there are limited recources and so you need to fight for them. its money and girls.
lol
i mean , im laughing but its the f*****g cold truth.
i am really feeling with bill gates how he handled his opponents. i really understand what he did.
i would do so too, if i was in his situation.
maybe in north america and europe its still funny...all this . .. but in other regions of the world ...they really fight for recources. they really kill each other. if they got more money, they would nt do so.
money , fame , power, beautiful girls....that are things which many people want but they are limited.
thats why beeing on earth is a big big war.
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IBM said:
what you want to say?
that im helpme007?... mr self-pity?
i dont know about helpme007 , fine if i remember you of him...
i dont care.
i care so much about this always beeing called "helpme007" , how i care about you.
if you want to go this route, fine... then no more help from me.
just shut it up.
im neo1234, ok?
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barcafan said:
thank you very much. you are really nice...barcafan.
"incoherent babble" wow. you are my new friend.
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barcafan said:
yes........
im "enlightened" ? ehhh? where did i say that?
if you see the people in here including you as "loosers" then fine.
hey guys ......i wouldnt let me called "loosers".
and well, i dont need this forum thats true . why should i?
but i enjoy posting here and helping others and getting new views.
but you just like to attack me .
with some really stupid things.
really , where did i say anything bad to you?
im just helping guys like tauge here and you come out of nowhere and attack me
again... you are my new friend, barcafan.
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barcafan said:
like a phoenix? why?
im neo1234 . period.
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No matter if you're neo1234 or helpme007. Many of us think you are but who cares. Stop calling me masoquist and poor self pity bastard.
As i said i'm not the guy who spend his life on the bed. I work and go for money to improve things. Right now i cant improve on important issues like self image because i'm in trouble for money. But i wake up at 7 am to get things better not 11 am.
As i said i'm not the guy who spend his life on the bed. I work and go for money to improve things. Right now i cant improve on important issues like self image because i'm in trouble for money. But i wake up at 7 am to get things better not 11 am.
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ok ibm.
its good that you go out.
did you give up or not?
tell me the answer to this question.
if not then i say you got potential too.
and sorry for the harsh words... i just dont like beeing called any name which i dont like and which isnt me.
ok?
its good that you go out.
did you give up or not?
tell me the answer to this question.
if not then i say you got potential too.
and sorry for the harsh words... i just dont like beeing called any name which i dont like and which isnt me.
ok?