Ori83 said:
would you care about hair-lose if you were married to the girl of your dreams? (she wont leave you, regardless of your hair situation)
give an honest answer here guys.
i for once would care...but i know girls nowadays are too superficial to over look such thing... so the dilemma still stands.
Take it from someone who knows about this issue, and has lived through this:
I can attest that, YES, you should care. Does the the saying, "I'm just not attracted to you anymore" sound familiar? Or what about this one: "when we first met, I was attracted to you, but I just don't feel that initial attraction anymore"...?
If you haven't heard these from a woman yet, YOU WILL when you reach a noticeable stage of male pattern baldness. I guarantee it!
You may think she won't care...after all she is the woman of your dreams, right? In fact she even tellss you that she will always love you ... no matter what.
Well, just wait. Wait until you get NW3/4, and you'll see another side of her you never knew existed. All of the sudden, the one girl that you thought you would never hear, "I'm just not attracted to you anymore" from, says those exact words to you one day.
Now there are going to be all kinds of guys who will deny this, and give all kinds of "other" explanations. And they wil try to tell me that I am speaking about onbly a small minority of shallow, cold-hearted women. But that is not so! That isn't reality.
The cold, hard truth of the matter is that, in reality, a lot of women (who even themselves thought their BF or husband being bald wouldn't bother them) suddenly become unattracted to bald men...and this includes their BF or husband.
The reason for this: They never really liked bald to begin with. They thought it wouldn't bother them, buit when the time came to ignore their BF's or hubby's bald head, they just couldn't do it. When their guy became bald, they suddenly discovered this fact - that they do not want to be with a BALD man for the rest of their lives.
Then it is "game over" my friend. What you thought you had reallly wasn't so all along. But you won't find this out the hard way until you become bald.
So if you can save the hair you have, and still have a nice looking head of hair (with the help of hair transplant's if needed) by all means go for it. If it is too far gone, shave or crop it.
You can let your fall out and not do nothing. But be aware that a lot of women, and this possibly includes the one you are with (the one who said she would "always love you no matter what") ...
will dump you when you go bald. End of story. And yes, it IS MOST DEFINATELY because of the hairloss, and nothing else. It doesn't matter what they say now, they will do it. I can assure you.